selfish...

[Yvanne]

or just me being a whinge??? my oh plays football at the weekend(on a sun) nothing serious just a kick about with his mates and he wanted to go today but i said no id rather you helped me with the kids, am i being selfish??

 

[lauramumof2]

HELL NO, when you have got a 1 week old baby you need all the support you can get. Tell him if he goes it will be his balls getting kicked around the park.

 

[Hypnorm]

Tell him if he goes it will be his balls getting kicked around the park.

With a 1 week old babe!! he should be at home helping you with house work and feeding you... i could only just waddle to the kitchen t 1 week i was still walking like john wayne!

 

[Urchin]

If you need the help he should stay...simple!

Maybe in few weeks when things are more settled he can go...but for now you call the shots

 

[fran_23]

of course your not being selfish hun, you've got a new bubba and a toddler. i bet its not easy at the best of times let alone when you've given birth a week ago! its not too much to ask on the scale of things is it!

 

[x-kirsty-x]

Daniel plays football on a Sunday too and I dont have a problem with it, Im glad to have a few hours with him out of my hair to be honest ha ha!

But I dont have a 1 week old baby and if I did I think I'd feel the same as you. You're not being selfish at all

 

[Lindsay]

My Dh plays football on a sunday morning too and on a monday night - he told me last night that he has been asked to play for a team on a saturday morning, well you can guess my reaction he didn't play till Jacob was about a month old though so no I don't think you are being selfish at all!

Xxx

 

[Tara & Liam]

no hun, you should not be expected to be on your own with a week old baby and a toddler. make him stay at home for a few more weeks at least, or tell him to take Chloe with him.