Scared and worried?

[babybo]

Ok so it's 3:50 in the morning. I've been lay here since half 1 wondering where my sickness has vanished to? My sore boobs havealso vanished?
I'm absolutely petrified something has happened? For the last 3 and half weeks I've had horrific sickness and even yesterday I was sat in the bathroom for 2 hours!!
Why has it gone?
Should I expect the worse?
Last night I had a few tight cramps and just felt different since?
I'vegot an early scan booked in on sat but now I'm worried theysay the worse? Irony wanna pay £65for them to tellme that?
There is no way that I can get to a hospital today either.

I know most of you will reply and say don't panic but I just feel different?

Going to try and get some sleep again and hope the sickness comeback even though I hated it xxxxxx

 

[mum2b410]

Hey hun.....thought I'd reply coz I'm awake too..........I know it is hard to be reassured but it may just be your hormones going crazy.....sometimes this can have an affect on the nausea.....u never know u may feel sicky again in a few hours! Some people never have any of the pregnancy symptoms and go on to carry healthy babies to term.....so who knows the sense in it all!

Try to stay calm and not over analyse things (easy to say I know).....if u are still worried come the morning u could perhaps ring your mw and ask if she thinks u need to do anything? It might help u get piece of mind!

*Big hug*

 

[Kirsty.Y.84]

Oh poor you I know nothing we say can make you feel better but just try not to panic. I had the same thing at the wknd, sore boobs gone no sickness and just felt too normal. I was convinced something had happened but had my scan and all was fine!
It's awful when your symptoms change because in a way they are somewhat comforting. You just have to try and think positive. Symptoms do change and so do your hormones. I agree with mum2b410, maybe call the midwife?

Lots of love xxxx

 

[weefoggy]

Hi Babybo

Poor you! I hope you managed to get back to sleep ok? I can't really give any reassurance as this is my first pregnancy so no clue what to expect! However I too have been lying awake since 5 this morning worrying and wondering if everything is ok. I haven't really experienced sickness and just had very slight nausea but the few symptoms I did have sore boobs and tiredness are easing off a lot and I am also thinking the worse.

I am terrified that I go to my scan on Tuesday to be told bad news.

I stupidly have told too many people - friends, family and selected people at work which now adds to my worries...I skyped my mum and dad last night and my mum, bless her, has knitted a gorgeous white cardi for bubs...she is so excited...what if I let everyone down?

I guess what I'm trying to say is we are unfortunately going to have these worries and will have to wait for each milestone for reassurance.

Wishing you all the very best for your scan on Saturday...will be thinking of you and looking forward to hearing your good news! xx

 

[babybo]

Thanx girls. I managed to go off to sleep but had nightmares about losing the baby!
I've still no sore boobs but I do have very very slight nausea but not sure if that's because I'm worried.
Been to the toilet and there is no blood.

Oh why does this have to be so difficult xxxx

 

[weefoggy]

I guess being a mum starts long before baby is born xxx

 

[Spammy]

Morning honey. Sorry you are so worried. I agree with the other girls. Phone your midwife today to put your mind at rest. They won't blame you for being worried especially after your previous mc. Will be thinking about you today x

 

[deedee84]

ahh babybo, its such a worrying time aint it, early this week i was woke with some odd pains, i went to the loo as i needed to pee anyway and i worried immensely after as i felt different and just thought something was not right, but after giving my head a shake i felt much better the day after and back to my usual positive self so hang on in there hun xx

 

[lefthanded]

babyboo dunno if this helps but i am feeling the same. I had lots of fluid retention i think and its suddenly gone. This will be my third baby and i thought blimey i am showing a bit high up quite quick. But its all gone and i can breathe in and hide it now. I keep squishing my boobs they are still a bit sore but don't feel quite as bad.
I panicked a bit and found a lady posting on another forum saying the same it and it was an old post from a few months ago and there was a new picture of her with a huge bump due any day!.

 

[Maria1977]

Try not to worry hun, symptoms disappear for a few days sometimes, but they come back with a vengeance!! Good luck for your scan tomorrow xxxx

 

[mrsblue]

Hi honey, so sorry you're feeling like this. Try not to panic as everything is most likely fine. I have days of feeling totally normal and then suddenly the next day I am running to the toilet again. It's not long till your scan, hang in there xxxx

 

[BellaRiven]

Hey Honey, Sorry your feeling off at the moment.

I can't offer much but my symptoms stopped for a couple of days around week 9 made me panic something rotten!!

to you

 

[hols1981]

Babybo try not to worry too much as people say - do think its fairly common for symptons to come youand go!
At least you have the scan tomorrow to put your mind at rest - i am sure that everything is fine.. agree you should try and call MW to put your mind at ease..
no doubt you're sickness will be back soon and you'll be wishing it away again . Good luck for tomo xxxxxxxx

 

[babybo]

Thanx girls. My sickness has come back (thank god) but not to it's full strength as it has been but it's enough to stop me from Panicking.
I should of enjoyed not feeling sick lol!!

I hate this questioning thing!!
Still nervous for the scan xx

 

[beckyboo1]

Baby bo - my sickness just stoppped overnight. I just woke up one saturday morning and realised i felt human again!!

I then started worrying but the further along you get, the better you'll feel.

don't get me wrong theres days I wonder if pips still in there, but i know all is ok as my belly's getting bigger.

Only got a few more hours til your early scan so keep your chin up and smile - you'll see your pip tomorrow!!

xxx

 

[kanga86]

glad to hear ur symptoms have started back up again this morning hun. I would make the most of the symptoms being easier on u. but I understand u worry, its hard to stay positive when u have had a mc before. Hopefully ur early scan will help u relax a bit xxxx

 

[mum2b410]

Glad u feel a bit 'better' (even tho u feel sick!)

Wanted to wish u good luck for your scan 2moro xx

 

[BabyBrain]

The reason for symptoms to start fluctuating is the growing placenta is beginning to take over providing for the baby. Your body is no longer relying on hormones alone and symptoms do start to ease off or maybe even disappear completely. This happens at different times for everyone.

It's a major worry for everyone but your body knows what it's doing even if your brain has no clue. You need to trust your body to take care of your baby, please try not to panic xxxxxxxx

 

[babybo]

Thanx babybrain. I didn't think tje placenta started to work until 10-12 weeks?

Sickness has gone again now. Just praying for a heart beat tomorrow!! I'm a nervous wreck lol xx

 

[chantilly]

Glad your syptoms have come back hun ...although i bet you wished you made the most of that time without it .

look forward to hearing how your scan goes sweetie