Sad to be here, should be TTC

[cosmicgirl]

So my oh was diagnosed with cancer last month.
We didn't have time to store sperm before his chemo started.
He's likely infertile after this treatment and we were going to ttc in the summer
We will find out in 6 months time if there is any sperm there.
So no ttc for us.
I just hope he gets better but I'm still very sad we didn't get to , I'm not getting any younger, this could be it xx

 

[CeeCee]

:hugs hun, sorry you & OH are going through such a tough time x

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thanks hun, it was such a shock and it's completely turned our lives upside down xx

 

[CeeCee]

I can't imagine what you're going through. I hope for the best outcome in the end for you. The most you can do is be strong for each other which I'm sure you're already doing xx

 

[cosmicgirl]

I'm trying, I don't let him see how worried I am. It's so hard xx

 

[CeeCee]

You're very strong. Always here if you need to chat xx

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thanks hun, that's very kind xx

 

[Lou12]

Awww Cos, sorry to hear this! Crossing my fingers really tightly that your OH and his little swimmers are ok!!! - and that you go on to get your little princess! xxx

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thanks hun xxx

Sperm should be the last thing on my mind shouldn't it? But we had a plan and now that's gone
As long as he gets better, that's most important so I feel a bit selfish for even worrying about the sperm situation xx

 

[Emily0505]

Awww hun

What an awful thing to go through.

I hope your oh gets better soon

XX

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thank you lovely xx
I hope he gets better soon, I'd be lost without him xx

 

[LYLLJellyTots]

I hope all works out hun x sending big hugs xxx

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thank you lovely xxx

 

[MissJuly10]

Oh Cos I'm so sorry. I hope he's better soon, cannot imagine what a shock it must have been. X


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[cosmicgirl]

Thanks missj, it was an awful shock. Have you seen that Macmillan ad where all the people fall down? That's exactly what it's like x

 

[Frankie_Lou]

Oh my god I only just saw this.
So so sorry to hear about your OH, really hope he makes a full recovery and one day you can have your little pink bundle x

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[Cazza]

Oh Cos I'm so so sorry hunny *hugs*

Fingers crossed for OH`s recovery.

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thank you girls, you're all so lovely xx

 

[Princess81]

I guess the future is doing to be daunting for you at this stage. I guess take things in small doses and see where it takes you.
I'd be wondering the same if I was you, It's all "what ifs" at the moment for you guys.
There is no guarantee that he'll be infertile after this treatment, we'll all keep our fingers crossed for you that all is ok.
Just know that when you want to air your fears, concerns and hopes we are here to listen xxx

 

[cosmicgirl]

Thank you princess, it's really helpful to vent in here as I have to pretend that everything will be ok to him or he gets anxious zz