This might sound a bit selfish to you all but i hope it doesn't.
A girl I work with has just completed her 2nd cycle of IVF after about 7 years of TTC. She found out last week it had been successful but started bleeding lots yesterday and she miscarried last night.
I just feel so bad for her and don't know what to say other than the usual you know where I am etc. I also feel bad that she's going to come back to work and have to see me pregnant and I can't imagine how bad that is going to make her feel.
Do you get really resentful of other pregnant women? Is there anything I can do to make it easier for her. I try really hard not to rub it in anyway and try not to talk too much about my little one.
It's so unfair. You see so many people that don't deserve to have children or aren't ready or don't want them etc and then there's people like my friends (4 of them) who want this so badly and would be great parents and it just keeps not happening for them.
Thanks for listening and if you can offer any words of help I would appreciate it.
Tan x
A girl I work with has just completed her 2nd cycle of IVF after about 7 years of TTC. She found out last week it had been successful but started bleeding lots yesterday and she miscarried last night.
I just feel so bad for her and don't know what to say other than the usual you know where I am etc. I also feel bad that she's going to come back to work and have to see me pregnant and I can't imagine how bad that is going to make her feel.
Do you get really resentful of other pregnant women? Is there anything I can do to make it easier for her. I try really hard not to rub it in anyway and try not to talk too much about my little one.
It's so unfair. You see so many people that don't deserve to have children or aren't ready or don't want them etc and then there's people like my friends (4 of them) who want this so badly and would be great parents and it just keeps not happening for them.
Thanks for listening and if you can offer any words of help I would appreciate it.
Tan x