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Really weird feeling.. Am i wrong :( ??

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Me and OH are only using condoms as contraception.. We know we could have an accident that's how we ended up with our gorgeous lil boy..

but i keep thinking when we do have another child im scared i won't love s/he like i love Jack..

im not sure if anyone else has felt like this before but its a reaccuring thought..

x
 
This is exactly how I felt EXACTLY!!! :) and I can honestly say hand on heart you will!! As soon as that baby is born you will, I chuckled when I read this coz I had the same fear :) I'm sat here now feeding my little one and she just melts my heart, they both do :) :) x
 
I cried when I fell pregnant with charley! Even though he was planned as soon as I fell pregnant I thought shit, what have I done to Lacey! I thought she'd feel left out or she'd think I didn't love her anymore and I couldn't imagine loving the baby as much as her but seriously I do love charley as much as lace! Lace still knows I love her too and I make sure she's involved as much as poss!!
Charley adores Lacey too!!
 
I feel the same Hun i even told OH im not sure if i want anymore as i can't imagine loving another one as much as i love Tegan! x
 
Im so happy you've all said that at least i know im not going crazy.. I want Jack to have all my attention for a few years before a litle brother or sister comes along x
 
Totally normal hun, when it happens and you have number 2 , you just get more love to go round , it's naturally in built, you love them both as much
 
When I had a scare, I wasn't afraid of being pregnant again, I felt like I had let Odhrán down, I hadn't had a chance to enjoy him, I felt so guilty.. I try to think of it for next time like, remember the scans, the kicks, the love you had for your bump, you're going to love it all even more because you will be sharing it with your LO etc.. Imagine them patting your tummy, giving kisses and getting excited for the new arrival, it will be amazing xx
 
When I had a scare, I wasn't afraid of being pregnant again, I felt like I had let Odhrán down, I hadn't had a chance to enjoy him, I felt so guilty.. I try to think of it for next time like, remember the scans, the kicks, the love you had for your bump, you're going to love it all even more because you will be sharing it with your LO etc.. Imagine them patting your tummy, giving kisses and getting excited for the new arrival, it will be amazing xx

that's very true :) im going to enjoy Jack first though :D xx
 
My first baby, completely overwhelmed me, my heart felt like it could burst- it was so full of love for her. I wondered how I could ever love another- as my heart was allready full. Then with no 2, 3 the 4....I found that I grew a new heart each time, so now I have 4 hearts palpitating with love....most days !!, they all have their moments, and challenging times though !!
 

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