dani200420052000
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Hi All!
I have not been on here for a while as all I have wanted to do is lie about or sleep ( if so i do this before 3pm ) so hopefully it dont affect my night time sleep. Im sitting here now and I feel like I am drifting off.. lol
I also wanted to complain about my partner, dont get me wrong I love him to bits but he was really horrible to me the other night.. so here goes...
He started going on about as soon as the baby is born he wants me to get a P/T time job. which is fair enough, but he does not want me to get a P/T job n e where he wants it to be a good job and he wants me to make something of my self. So he wants me to study at college p/t and work P/T AS WELL AS LOOK AFTER A BABY. How can I manage all this straight away when he works ridiculus hours about 55- 65 per week and he cant reduce them as thats the trade he is in, he never gets a set 2 days off its really arkward. He always complains about money, I dont know y! I have not been working since july but been getting benefits and saying that i am living alone so we can afford to get buy..hE WAS SHOUTING AT ME FOR ABOUT 1 FULL HOUR ABOUT HOW ARE WE GOING TO COPE and get by, and saying that I need to decide what I want in life and decide what career I want to take ( which i dont know at the mo ), and start getting the ball rolling..
But at the mo all i am worried about is the birth as i have 6 wks left and I am worried about how i am going to cope emotuionally as he is always at work and I will have to do maily everything alone...
I took this abuse from him for an hour then just it all got to much and I just burst out crying saying that I am finding things so hard.. yeah he might work F/T but hes tea is alweays on the tabkle ,the house is always clean, hes shirts are always washed and ironed for work, I do everything like that. I have never nagged at him whilst I have been pregnant as I knew that he was finding it hard to come to terms with.
But eventually when i started crying about all this, he said that all he wanted was me top shout at him as he has wondered why i have been pregnant but been emotionless. bearing in mind i was like this because iof him, trying to be nice and treading on egg shells as i wanted this experience to be as easy as possible for him!
But then I look back at the other night and think why could he be so cruel as to do that to me it was awfull I was so upset and hurt I was in real bad tears sobbing, and he done it just so i would nagg at him.... i just dont understand it..
n e advice on y he done this ppl. sorry to go on i just dont understand!
Love Dani x
I have not been on here for a while as all I have wanted to do is lie about or sleep ( if so i do this before 3pm ) so hopefully it dont affect my night time sleep. Im sitting here now and I feel like I am drifting off.. lol
I also wanted to complain about my partner, dont get me wrong I love him to bits but he was really horrible to me the other night.. so here goes...
He started going on about as soon as the baby is born he wants me to get a P/T time job. which is fair enough, but he does not want me to get a P/T job n e where he wants it to be a good job and he wants me to make something of my self. So he wants me to study at college p/t and work P/T AS WELL AS LOOK AFTER A BABY. How can I manage all this straight away when he works ridiculus hours about 55- 65 per week and he cant reduce them as thats the trade he is in, he never gets a set 2 days off its really arkward. He always complains about money, I dont know y! I have not been working since july but been getting benefits and saying that i am living alone so we can afford to get buy..hE WAS SHOUTING AT ME FOR ABOUT 1 FULL HOUR ABOUT HOW ARE WE GOING TO COPE and get by, and saying that I need to decide what I want in life and decide what career I want to take ( which i dont know at the mo ), and start getting the ball rolling..
But at the mo all i am worried about is the birth as i have 6 wks left and I am worried about how i am going to cope emotuionally as he is always at work and I will have to do maily everything alone...
I took this abuse from him for an hour then just it all got to much and I just burst out crying saying that I am finding things so hard.. yeah he might work F/T but hes tea is alweays on the tabkle ,the house is always clean, hes shirts are always washed and ironed for work, I do everything like that. I have never nagged at him whilst I have been pregnant as I knew that he was finding it hard to come to terms with.
But eventually when i started crying about all this, he said that all he wanted was me top shout at him as he has wondered why i have been pregnant but been emotionless. bearing in mind i was like this because iof him, trying to be nice and treading on egg shells as i wanted this experience to be as easy as possible for him!
But then I look back at the other night and think why could he be so cruel as to do that to me it was awfull I was so upset and hurt I was in real bad tears sobbing, and he done it just so i would nagg at him.... i just dont understand it..
n e advice on y he done this ppl. sorry to go on i just dont understand!
Love Dani x