Merfairy
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Hi, my OH and me are not getting on well and I love him so much, but we keep arguing. He seems uninterested in me... in general. He tells me he finds me boring and that I don't do much, therefore have nothing to say to him, but I am coming to the end of work and I have nothing to do at work all day and at home, I am bored as well at work and home. He finds our relationship dull and I am starting to feel really low and my confidence is seriously sinking. I see me ending up with the baby alone, which is not what I would have chosen to do.
Is like we usually have a regular and good sex life, always have.. but the last week and a half he hasn't been interesed in our sex life at all. Today we had some time and I though 'yay'... then this morning he told me 'not now, we have stuff to do; maybe later'. I did get upset as I felt rejected, but the day turned out good in the end. Tonight in bed we are messing about and he says 'calm down; not tonight we have to get up early tomorrow'. I am like.. what? I asked him if he wasn't interested in me sexually anymore; he denies this to be. Then I got upset and we argued again.. !!!!!
I said that when the baby comes, we may not be able to make love for weeks afterwards, and I guess I wanted for us to be regular as we were, but the last few weeks sex has kinda been disappearing; we are not even like slightly there... I am feeling really insecure and so unattractive, which are not good traits at all I know this... I then break down in tears... then I think he has interest elsewhere and we end up arguing and he claims I am pressuring him.. I keep getting it wrong and I am turning in to one of those women who is becoming all clingy and wanting constant reassurance.. what is wrong with me.. I don't even understand myself at the moment.. I have become self absorbed, un-fun and clingy and.. I have changed, but not for the better...
Not asking for any miracle responses here; but just wanted to get it out.. sorry, but thankyou for reading...
Is like we usually have a regular and good sex life, always have.. but the last week and a half he hasn't been interesed in our sex life at all. Today we had some time and I though 'yay'... then this morning he told me 'not now, we have stuff to do; maybe later'. I did get upset as I felt rejected, but the day turned out good in the end. Tonight in bed we are messing about and he says 'calm down; not tonight we have to get up early tomorrow'. I am like.. what? I asked him if he wasn't interested in me sexually anymore; he denies this to be. Then I got upset and we argued again.. !!!!!
I said that when the baby comes, we may not be able to make love for weeks afterwards, and I guess I wanted for us to be regular as we were, but the last few weeks sex has kinda been disappearing; we are not even like slightly there... I am feeling really insecure and so unattractive, which are not good traits at all I know this... I then break down in tears... then I think he has interest elsewhere and we end up arguing and he claims I am pressuring him.. I keep getting it wrong and I am turning in to one of those women who is becoming all clingy and wanting constant reassurance.. what is wrong with me.. I don't even understand myself at the moment.. I have become self absorbed, un-fun and clingy and.. I have changed, but not for the better...
Not asking for any miracle responses here; but just wanted to get it out.. sorry, but thankyou for reading...
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