LuW
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Um.. Hi? sorry I'm just not feeling very polite today and this is more of a outburst then a question or anything I'm expecting a comment on. I just really need to get this off my chest before I really do go insane.
Billie's due date is coming up and all I spend most of my time doing is holding the blanket his daddy gave me for him. It was supposed to be burried at the memorial service but I couldn't part with it when I was there and alone. All I can think is, only 5 more weeks and I would have had that first real cuddle. Instead I have 6 more weeks until his daddy goes away to fight for his country. A fight we should not be fighting, but I'll leave my polictical judgments aside.
So in the middle of my hormone fueled tantrum today I made a comment on facebook over how it isn't fair that should happen to me. Only to be jumped on by every pregnant friend I have, sorry - every pregnant friend I have whose never lost a child, that I'm taking it out on them that I wasn't good enough.
I tried to talk to OH over it all for him to turn around and say 'well it wasn't your fault, it just happened.' It made me feel like my baby meant nothing to him and I'm the only one who still wants my baba.
He'd always said when I was starting to get help for my depression that if things got far too much for me he could come home. He's just decided it would be a good idea to inform me he can only come home if I was pregnant. Not the time to tell me that if my body had done as it should I would have been able to have my man come home more often to make sure I was okay.
All I've got is memories and dreams. I envy anyone who gets to actually talk to their OH's when their down. I have to email him, or text because he's not in a place he can speak. or even if I couldn't tal to him just see him.
I'm in a mood with him and I've said some extremely hurtful things to him now but all I can think is I want my baby. And how much jealousy I feel towards everyone I know with children or the OH's home or both.
Sorry for all the rant. Don't expect a reply or anyone to read tbh, just needed to write it all down.
LuX
Billie's due date is coming up and all I spend most of my time doing is holding the blanket his daddy gave me for him. It was supposed to be burried at the memorial service but I couldn't part with it when I was there and alone. All I can think is, only 5 more weeks and I would have had that first real cuddle. Instead I have 6 more weeks until his daddy goes away to fight for his country. A fight we should not be fighting, but I'll leave my polictical judgments aside.
So in the middle of my hormone fueled tantrum today I made a comment on facebook over how it isn't fair that should happen to me. Only to be jumped on by every pregnant friend I have, sorry - every pregnant friend I have whose never lost a child, that I'm taking it out on them that I wasn't good enough.
I tried to talk to OH over it all for him to turn around and say 'well it wasn't your fault, it just happened.' It made me feel like my baby meant nothing to him and I'm the only one who still wants my baba.
He'd always said when I was starting to get help for my depression that if things got far too much for me he could come home. He's just decided it would be a good idea to inform me he can only come home if I was pregnant. Not the time to tell me that if my body had done as it should I would have been able to have my man come home more often to make sure I was okay.
All I've got is memories and dreams. I envy anyone who gets to actually talk to their OH's when their down. I have to email him, or text because he's not in a place he can speak. or even if I couldn't tal to him just see him.
I'm in a mood with him and I've said some extremely hurtful things to him now but all I can think is I want my baby. And how much jealousy I feel towards everyone I know with children or the OH's home or both.
Sorry for all the rant. Don't expect a reply or anyone to read tbh, just needed to write it all down.
LuX