Really confused..

[Bexi1]

Really don't know what to do, I've spoke to the father of my baby, and he wants me to have an abortain, because of my mental & financial state, in same ways I want to, but in more ways I want to keep baby, I love baby's father, but well never get back together, and he says hell hate me if I keep the baby, but I can't kill baby because its not fair!! I'm thinking of going along with the pregnancy and getting it adopted? Isit right or wrong..... X

 

[Loula]

Its a big choice only you can make and you may even change your mind larer on x

 

[Bexi1]

Thanks Hun x

 

[Muguboo]

I'm guessing you're very young? Do you have a caseworker you can speak to? If not social services should be able to help you anyway. Fob sounds like a proper b*****d - I think you've mentioned him before in a post - does he have a load of other kids? Don't let him bully you and make you feel weak - he really sounds like a bully and I think you should cut him right out immediately regardless of what you decide to do about baby.

Do you have family/ friend support? That will be pretty important if you go this alone

 

[Louandtwins]

DOnt ever try to abort the babe for whatever reason!! they can all go to hell, go ahead and have your babe girl

Foetuses go to hell?! Is this person a troll? Other 'helpful' advice has been given on other posts.

Ignore this, get some help from your Dr for counselling and advice. Speak to friends and relatives. Above all trust your instinct about what is right for YOU. I really wish you all the best xx

 

[Louandtwins]

PS. Completely agree with comments regarding your ex bf. Emotional blackmail is abuse. Keep clear of him.

 

[clairem1980]

I took what aLanante said to mean all the people (ex boyfriend etc) can go to he'll, not the foetus?

 

[her13]

i think that persons a troll. dont let anyone push you into doing anything, father sounds like an a** you dont need him. you have to do whats right for you or you could regret it later on, you can do it on your own though im sure you would be a great mum. adoption is an option but i think you have to very sure thats what you want to do be able to do that. you may find that as soon as you have your baby all worrries dissapear and you decide to keep him/her. its very personal decision though if abortion is what you want then i would find out about it quickly as you are 12 wks now . try and find some support im sure theres stuff online if you have a look ongoogle or your gp , friends family etc x

 

[Louandtwins]

I took what aLanante said to mean all the people (ex boyfriend etc) can go to he'll, not the foetus?

Ahhhh....yes, you could be right. Apologies if this is the case. Pregnancy brain

 

[Rachaellius]

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