Well I've been with my fiancé for 5 &1/2 years and we each have a child from previous relationships.
My son is 10 ( 4 1/2 when we met)
His daughter is 13 ( just turned 8 when we met)
We have been together a while before deciding we would like one together ( I'm 30 and he's 45 so didn't want to wait too much longer )
I'm now 38 weeks and 1 day and I feel like I'm doing everything in the house. Well I've told my fiancé how I feel about having to do everything when I'm so heavily pregnant. All I want is to relax and have the house clean etc. He only has her fri pm till sun pm but I feel like a hotel servant when she's there.
I cook / make 4 meals a day because she is always hungry ( she's nowhere near underweight !!) . He's quite picky my fella so I have to cook from scratch - we very rarely eat anything From a tin and micro meals are a big no no.
Well the last 3 weekends I've managed to convince my son to peel the veg by telling him how much I'm struggling, my fella doesn't help because he's snowed under with work, & if I ask her to wash the few pots she washes her own plate then goes to her room and leaves me to wash all the pots dry them and put them away !!! ( Thai is 4 times a day if we have porridge or fry up for breakfast)
I've told him about how much I'm struggling and how she should help me ! My son helps and he's 3 years younger . She sits on her arse all weekend and doesn't lift a finger - she doesn't even hoover her room etc anymore - I use to be on her case bout cleaning her room so she would then do it. But I'm
Too tired and because I'm not on her case she doesn't do it , he should be pulling up the slack but I feel like it's all down to me all of the time.
She's normally an ok kid and doesn't usually bother me so much - but the heavier I get the lazier she becomes !! She doesn't do anything around the house - she should be able to pack the washer and wash pots at least !!!
Is it just hormones ? Am I justified in telling him he and her should do more ? I feel like a slave
Well I've told him I'm staying at my mums now until baby is born- she lives closer to hospital .
He can cook 4 meals and clean up after the them both whilst he's trying to get his work
Done and clean the house all weekend .... oh yea and he's picking her up tonight ( Friday) & he told me he's having dinner with her at his parents house because she has refused to go shopping on the way to his house !!! So he has to go shopping Saturday instead ( wasting more time and fuel!) he tried to get me to do it but I said I'm just too tired
My son is 10 ( 4 1/2 when we met)
His daughter is 13 ( just turned 8 when we met)
We have been together a while before deciding we would like one together ( I'm 30 and he's 45 so didn't want to wait too much longer )
I'm now 38 weeks and 1 day and I feel like I'm doing everything in the house. Well I've told my fiancé how I feel about having to do everything when I'm so heavily pregnant. All I want is to relax and have the house clean etc. He only has her fri pm till sun pm but I feel like a hotel servant when she's there.
I cook / make 4 meals a day because she is always hungry ( she's nowhere near underweight !!) . He's quite picky my fella so I have to cook from scratch - we very rarely eat anything From a tin and micro meals are a big no no.
Well the last 3 weekends I've managed to convince my son to peel the veg by telling him how much I'm struggling, my fella doesn't help because he's snowed under with work, & if I ask her to wash the few pots she washes her own plate then goes to her room and leaves me to wash all the pots dry them and put them away !!! ( Thai is 4 times a day if we have porridge or fry up for breakfast)
I've told him about how much I'm struggling and how she should help me ! My son helps and he's 3 years younger . She sits on her arse all weekend and doesn't lift a finger - she doesn't even hoover her room etc anymore - I use to be on her case bout cleaning her room so she would then do it. But I'm
Too tired and because I'm not on her case she doesn't do it , he should be pulling up the slack but I feel like it's all down to me all of the time.
She's normally an ok kid and doesn't usually bother me so much - but the heavier I get the lazier she becomes !! She doesn't do anything around the house - she should be able to pack the washer and wash pots at least !!!
Is it just hormones ? Am I justified in telling him he and her should do more ? I feel like a slave
Well I've told him I'm staying at my mums now until baby is born- she lives closer to hospital .
He can cook 4 meals and clean up after the them both whilst he's trying to get his work
Done and clean the house all weekend .... oh yea and he's picking her up tonight ( Friday) & he told me he's having dinner with her at his parents house because she has refused to go shopping on the way to his house !!! So he has to go shopping Saturday instead ( wasting more time and fuel!) he tried to get me to do it but I said I'm just too tired