Quick question Updated with pic of OPK

[nicky1987]

OH is very much a lover of the whole what will be will be! He keeps me sane most of the time with it btu sometimes i could just strangle him!!! So far this cycle ive been pretty chilled out - just the opks stressing me out! Gonna have a couple of days of not knowing now aswell as i need to wait for the next batch to arrive!!

 

[Drummers_wife]

with a cycle of 60 days you wouldnt expect to ov until cd40-46 or so anyways so you could be in for a long wait xx

yeah my hubs says dont stress dont worry blaa blaa - easy for him he has 2 children so the need and want for a child of ur own isnt the same

 

[Kay Kay]

hi girls, yeah having a meltdown is just awful, you're just inconsolable eh? i was pretty hysterical back in december. just not coping at all. it's worse than any physical pain i've ever been thru

you ladies help me a lot though and have got me through some rough times. i'm getting all mushy now!

my hubby is really strong as well and a great support. he just doesn't get as emotional as me but it still hurts and frustrates him. he doesn't talk to anyone about it except me which i worry about. but he doesn't think it's anyone else's business! typical male!

 

[nicky1987]

Kay kay my OH never talks about anything and it drives me insane! But on the other hand i know when something is really upsetting him because he starts to mention things.

Heres todays opk - trust it to start gettign darker now ive bloody run out!! hope my next lot arrives tomorrow!!!

 

[Kay Kay]

Oooh good stuff! Hope the opks come quick. Bd anyway to cover it. I'm gonna start opks on wed that will be cd 12. The annoying thing is oh has to go down south on wed for an overnight with work, I.know its only one night but just typical timing! We are bding all this week anyway. It's exhausting eh?

 

[nicky1987]

It is exhausting! We need to get as much in as we can as OH goes away on friday till late sunday night so i dont want to miss any opportunities!!! Just kicking myself for running out of opks!! I doubt they will be here until wednesday tho!! I'm CD 14 today!!

Never thought so much sex could be sooo tiring tho! Think OH feels a bit neglected when its not bd'ing time as im too knackered lol!

 

[Kay Kay]

I know, if I'm honest we don't really bed much after ov has been. We keep bding up to 2 or 3 days after ov then we just kinda stop for a week or so. It's a hard habit to get out of though we are so used to dtd around ovulation

 

[nicky1987]

what position should your cervix be in if you are about to ovulate? ive never really got to grips with the checking of it xx

 

[Kay Kay]

Oh I'm not the best person to ask I don't bother with cervix checking, it gives me the heebie jeebies! But there are other ladies who know a lot about it x

 

[nicky1987]

Yeah thats why ive never really bothered!! Not really one to venture up there myself!!

 

[itisbabytime]

Wen u r most fertile it must be SHOW. Soft high open and wet. I've tried checking it too but I have no idea what I'm doing!!

 

[Drummers_wife]

Looking good nicky xx fx things will start happening next few days my bet is ur in for a shorter cycle like 30-35 days

 

[nicky1987]

Woken up with a nice big spot on my chin!!! Great got a job interview today as well!!!

 

[Drummers_wife]

Goodluck for the interview xxxx concealer at the ready

 

[nicky1987]

Interview went well - didnt get the job tho! not overly bothered about it to be honest! Covered my spot up - swear the bloody thing is getting bigger!!! Just done an opk - not gone how i thought it would!!!

 

[Drummers_wife]

Aww nicky ur having trouble with these poxy opks aren't ya xx

I feel ur frustration xx you supply came then?! Keep positive and keep going with them with ur long cycles ov could be anywhere in it xx

 

[nicky1987]

Yeees my supply came!!! Just uploading a picture now for you

 

[nicky1987]

here you go - absolute rubbish!!!!

 

[Drummers_wife]

It's still there nicky simular to yesterday fx ur big surge is jus around corner xx

Oh I forgot to say how rude of me - commiseration's about the job xx

 

[nicky1987]

Ahh hun about the job - i went for it more for the interview experience and it was still at the place i work at now so im not really all that bothered about not getting it!!

It is the same darkness as yesterdays so will see what tomorrows brings!! Hopefully darker