Is anyone else feeling a lot of external pressure to get pregnant? I understand how much my parents want me to have a baby of course I do but not more than my husband and I want to be pregnant. My mum is upset saying she thinks she wont be alive by the time I have a baby and it almost feels like she is making me feel guilty for not getting there faster. Its making me feel like a failure when she brings my ex into it saying if I had left him a lot sooner I would have been with someone else and had a baby by now. Wish I had the same crystal ball It seems to be a constant source of sadness for me lately- so many people I know are getting pregnant or having babies meanwhile I am still here being ignored by the consultant and suffering god knows what gynae issues with pretty much no medical support. She was saying I have to tell the baby if I ever have one how much my parents wanted to meet them but I didnt get pregnant soon enough. The stress of not getting pregnant at my age is a massive worry for me but I feel like she believes I am doing it to upset her. There is nothing more I can do if its not happening for us its not happening and I cant force the issue. I have got an appointment to ask for a referral to another consultant who might help me more and as far as I can see this is the best I can do My husbands family have put the pressure on since before we were married and now my mother has become obsessed with it for the last few months. Its like she cant think about anything else and it feels like she blames me for not being able to have this happen right away. This isnt gonna help me get pregnant any faster so I dont know what else to do Is anyone else going through this at the moment, feeling pressure about getting pregnant?