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Pregnant again and already have a 9 month old. Freaking out.

Vhanna

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I am pregnant again and I currently have a 9 month old who is extremely attached to me. I am freaking out because I am 24 years old. This was an unplanned pregnancy. I wasnt going to have anymore till a few years from now. I have a lot on my plate right now. I am a stay at home mom . I attend a very competitive and stressful Masters program in which i have to find a job for by the summer. (Who is going to hire a pregnant woman?) Money is tight and i live with my mother where there is just no more space for anyone. I know its a huge blessing but i just keep stressing out about school, money, space, my little one, etc. I am scared of how hard its going to be to juggle all of these and give my 9 month old the attention she needs. I am freaking out.
 
We're in a similar position I have an 8 month old and I'm 14 weeks pregnant we also have a six year old. Money will be tight but you can and will et through it. You already have all the baby stuff so will need to buy very little. Your babies will grow up being the best of friends. With regards to your masters of you feel too stretched are you able to defer for a year until you feel more settled on a routine. Things happen for a reason cx
 
Thank you! It feels good to know i am not alone in this. I know what keep me holding on is that everything happens for a reason and God placed this baby in my life and I should be thankful, i am just super worried how things are going to work out. Best of luck to you too!
 

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