Pregnant 6 weeks. Failed morning after pill.

Chloeisobelle

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Hi everyone. I'm currently 6 weeks pregnant.
I was seeing a man on and off since May.
We had an accident and I took the morning after pill the next day, 4 weeks later my period hasn't come and I decided to do a pregnancy test, I still cannot believe the pill didn't work, I'm still in complete shock. I've told this guy that I was seeing that I'm pregnant and he's gone awol. Told me he wants nothing to do with the child and doesn't want to be in a relationship or have anything to do with the situation full stop.
In already a single mum to a 19 month old girl. I've already had a scan and I was told that despite the pill not working everything looks fine.
I'm at a loss for what to do, I don't think I can go through with a termination but I suffer with very bad anxiety and I don't have a lot of support from family either. I'm just at a loss for what to do, if this man wanted to be involved it would be a huge weight off my shoulders but he doesn't actually give a damn. He's called me insane for even considering keeping the baby.
I just don't know how I will cope with 2 children as a single parent :(
And my last pregnancy I was anxious the whole way through with panic attacks, on already having daily panic attacks now because I'm so stressed.
Has anyone been In this situation? I just need some help :(
 
Hiya hun, unfortunately I don't have any advice but you might be better posting in Pregnancy Chat as there are more people in that part of the forum.


 
This was the situation with my 1st.
I carries on and shes 3 years old now. I also have a new partner when she was 15 months.
Its your choice what you do im lucky i have alot of support and work fulltime.

Us mummys do find the strength to carry on x
 
Hi, I can relate to some of this as I'm a young single mum of one and went through my pregnancy alone without a partner, luckily I do have supportive family and friends and LO does see her dad once a week, but what rings a bell is your anxiety problems, I have severe anxiety and health anxiety too, it seems to be harder to cope than before i had my daughter, I advise that you gather anyone close to you and let them know you need help. Maybe ask your doctor for help tackle your anxiety in the form of CBT/breathing techniques or even pay for private therapy once in a while, anything to help! Having another little one will be a stress on you with everything else going on, I dont have any great advice except be open with those close to you and look at facing your anxiety head on. xx
 

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