Poem and Hugs

[Charlotteee]

Author Unknown

How do you love a person
who never got to be,
or try to envision a face
you never got to see?
How do you mourn the death of one
who never got to live.
When there's nothing to feel good about
and nothing to forgive?
I love you, my little baby,
my companion of the night.
Wandering through my lonely hours,
beautiful and bright.
What does it mean to die before
you ever were born,
to live the lovely night of life
and never see the dawn?
Ah! My little baby,
you lived like anyone!
Life's a burst of joy and pain.
And then like yours, it's done.
I love you, my little baby,
just as if you'd lived for years.
No more, no less, I think of you,
the Angel of my tears.



I suffered a loss in December and i'm only just coming to terms with it. I had a memorial tattoo and its kind of healed the greaving process. I feel like i've had closure.

I know how hard this is, take as much time as you need. So if anyone wants to PM me please feel free.

Floaty to all our angels
xxxx

 

[JJ Mum]

Hey Charlotte, thats a fantastic poem, really sums it up so well - did you write it yourself?

Great that the tatoo helped with closure for you - I had one in March, it was hard at first and then if I'm honest I think I have only put the greiving process on hold to try again, as I feel I must be pregnant agin now!, probably hit me in the end.

 

[Charlotteee]

No i didn't. Sorry should probably have put that underneath. Copyright and everything.
Yeah i understand what you mean with the wanting to try.
I want to try sooo much. But me and oh have agreed to wait until next year. So its quite hard atm knowing i have so long to wait. Take as much time as you need to grieve hun. And if your trying now, i have a feeling next month you will have a sticky beany. You very fertile the month after a miscarriage xx

 

[Lacey's Mummy]

That's such a beautiful poem! So sorry to hear about your loss x x

 

[karenandbump]

Sorry about ur loss hon - I lost in Jan and got a BFP a couple of weeks ago. That poem is so perfect for how I feel about my loss - thanks-you xxx

 

[JJ Mum]

Hey Charlotte I wasn't worried about copyright, don't worry! I was really impressed with your skills if it was yours as I am a would be writer , it's what I will be trying properly after I have the baby.

Lovely tho all the same - sums up it for me - big thanks for posting it for us all

 

[hayels]

lovely poem xxxxxx

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Wrote this tonight as I sometimes find it easier to put things down on paper.....in memory of our little sunbeam xxx

I wonder why you left so soon why did you have to go?​

We didn’t get to feel your kick, my bump it did not grow.​

We wanted you so much you know to love and hold you tight​

But since you left our lives the days are dark just like the nights.​

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The guilt is bad, the pain is hard we want you back so much​

What, could I have changed that day I longed to feel your touch.​

I want to feel you kick inside and flutter like a bird​

But now your tiny heartbeat will sadly never be heard.​

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I talk and whisper to you of how much I love you so​

I wonder what I must have done that had to make you go​

I didn’t think I’d lose you, and in time that you’d arrive​

I want you back inside of me so happy and alive.​

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Its hard to think your gone now, and in heaven up above​

And every day we’ll think of you and will send you all our love.​

So sleep tight now our little one until we meet again.​

Our lives without you little one will never be the same....​

Lots of love​

Mammy Daddy & Big Sisters Kate n Gina​

xxx​

 

[Charlotteee]

Thats really good hun. Sorry for your loss. Hugs xxxx

 

[Sam's Mum]

That's beautiful Wilma

 

[lanny]

really nice poems girls im sat here in tears just reading them and thinking how hard it must be for all you ladys that have had losses really hope you's all get your BFP's soon xxxxxxxxxx

 

[Bead]

Such beautiful and very sad poems. I am in tears reading them also.
Big hugs to you all coming to terms with such a terrible loss Xx

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Thanks Charlotte, bead SM and Lanny....nice way to remember them too .....

Sorry Charlottee I didnt mean to highjack your thread...just thought as you started a lovely poem thread I would add mine too hope thats ok....and sorry for your loss too ots so sad....xxx

 

[Charlotteee]

No its fine hun, post away. Everyone can, i dont mind xxx

 

[Mamafy]

Lovely poems

 

[karenandbump]

Julia, that's really lovely hon - got me in floods! But in a good way xxx

 

[WILMAFLINSTONE]

Thanks Charlottee and mamfy xxx


Thanks Karen...sometimes things come out better written down dont they....I love writing poems too....but makes them even more special when so meaningful xxx