p1nk11
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Yesturday evening I got the phonecall I've been waiting for now I'm terrified & dont know wot to do. The results of my baby's post mortem are finally back (its been nearly 9 weeks) & we have to go the hospital on the 27th to discuss them with the consultant. I've wanted these for soo long to try & give me some answers about why she was taken from us & now I'm terried of wot they are going to say.
I cried for hrs last night but my OH doesnt understand why & I cant explain it to him. I'm scared they are going to tell me its my fault, that I did something wrong. I did everything they told me, I followed all the 'rules'- didnt eat wot they say not to, followed all the advice they gave me but wot if I forgot something? I have always blamed myself for her death as I carried her & should of kept her safe - protected her, but I couldnt even do that. Deep down I think my OH feels its my fault to - though he has never said or implied that he thinks this, how can he not? Secretly I'm really worried that if it was my fault that he will never forgive me & I'll lose him to - I've never told him this even though I've been worried about it for wks.
This is going to be one of the longest wks ever. I'm trying to take my mind of it but nothing seems to help.
I cried for hrs last night but my OH doesnt understand why & I cant explain it to him. I'm scared they are going to tell me its my fault, that I did something wrong. I did everything they told me, I followed all the 'rules'- didnt eat wot they say not to, followed all the advice they gave me but wot if I forgot something? I have always blamed myself for her death as I carried her & should of kept her safe - protected her, but I couldnt even do that. Deep down I think my OH feels its my fault to - though he has never said or implied that he thinks this, how can he not? Secretly I'm really worried that if it was my fault that he will never forgive me & I'll lose him to - I've never told him this even though I've been worried about it for wks.
This is going to be one of the longest wks ever. I'm trying to take my mind of it but nothing seems to help.