Ovulation question

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  1. Mummy to one

    Mummy to one Well-Known Member

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    Hi ladies,

    I just had a quick question about ovulating and wondered if anyone can give me advise on it as I don't know much about when I ovulate only the average.

    My period is pretty regular... Every 28 days for about 4/5 days. My last period started on the first of May and ended on the 5th. My partner and I had unprotected sex last night. I think going by an average lady my ovulation period is still a few days off although I did have some cramping sensations. Obviously when I ovulate is totally down to each individual but do any of u ladies think there is at least a chance that I could be ovulating already and so have conceived or is the odds stacked against me.

    I know it's a guessing game and no one knows for sure but please I'd love some advise.

    Thanks

    C x
     
  2. MrsS15

    MrsS15 Well-Known Member

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    Hey!

    Based on your cycle you probably ovulate around day 14. You're on day 11 right now and in your 'fertile week' and as sperm can live for up to 5 days inside, there's a big change it could hang around to catch the egg when you ovulate :) You might ovulate earlier, it's always possible, but then usually that's reflected in a shorter cycle! If you're hoping to get pregnant I would try and have sex again in the next few days to give you a better chance!

    Good luck xx
     
  3. Mummy to one

    Mummy to one Well-Known Member

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    Really? So u think there is a fair chance I could concieve? My partner and I aren't really in the best way together at the moment so we are actually trying. I love him more than anything and I'm sure he still does too but I didn't treat him very well in the past so he has a barrier up. That's the first time we have had unprotected sex in a while so I doubt it will happen again this week. He had a huge Barrier up which am trying to get round which isn't as easy. He says that he doesn't know if he feels the same about me anymore but I thats all part of the barrier.

    I love him I want a family with him and I know he used to so am hoping we can sort things. I would love to have fallen pregnant. I know it's probably not the best time but I hope if fate happened and I was it could bring us back close together and show him much I love him.

    Thank so much! X
     
  4. Sparklegirl

    Sparklegirl Well-Known Member

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    Have you discussed it with him? As I am sure you are aware, having a baby to help improve a relationship or 'fix' a problem tends not to be successful. Be careful you dont end up in a worse position

    I hope things work out well for you whichever way you both decide to go x
     
  5. Mummy to one

    Mummy to one Well-Known Member

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    Hi sparkle girl,

    Thank you very much for your reply. I totally agree that it would not help our relationship and I defo am not under any impression that it will do that. I have no intentions of trying to fall pregnant to help our relationship. I know it wouldn't. But it is just something we did want in the past that's all.

    C x
     

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