Just lie to the dr - I was just about to get sent off for tests before I got my bfp (even though we hadn't been trying very long, I was just an impatient liar lol), so my drs (Sunderland) take you seriously after "12 months". Obviously the mc is awful, but it does mean that you can get pregnant doesn't it? So good news in a horrible way? If I'm wrong about that, nee offence meant.
And now for a moan about my SIL.. she's about 10 years older than I am, and perfectly nice, but she's came from a family with no money, had nowt all her life, and now has a hubby who earns decent moolah and has become rather a snob and that gets up my nose a bit... This is the MIL talking about her - "Nickie has NEVER been in Primark" "Nickie has only been in Matalan once" "Nickie only buys expensive shoes for her feet" "Nickie spent £45 on blah's school shoes" etc etc. And these are the people who couldn't afford to come to our wedding cos we got married in Mexico, not here as they wanted. Bah! Also, she's obsessed with going to the gym and as a lazy tubby that annoys me too