I'm so so so angry!!
Firstly, my step Mum is the most jealous person in the world and HATES my mum and at every opportunity will say things like "get your mother to come and get you" or "no, ask your mother to drop you off, I haven't got time" to my brothers.
My brother is 13 years old and lives with my dad about 25 mins drive away. My Mum ALWAYS drives down to pick him up and drop him off again every other weekend. My dad/step mum NEVER make the journey. To add fuel to the fire, there is a direct train link, 1 stop, 9 mins on the train and my dad and step mum won't let him get on the friggin' train on his own! Yet they've bought him a season ticket to go and see P'boro with his friend and they get on the train (30 min journey)... ON THEIR OWN.
Last week I had my 4D scan and planned to take my brothers (13 & 17 yrs). I told my step Mum that they'll have to get on the train to Sandy where I am so that I can drive to MK (if I picked them up it would mean driving 25 mins to my dads, then back up the A1, past Sandy, and another hour and a half to MK).
Friday night before my scan, my Mum tells me when I get in from work that Ryan (13 yrs) had called to say he's not allowed to get the train as Joe (17 yrs) is driving down on his DODGY moped that they bought him which would leave Ryan getting the train on his own. My step mum had said to him "well Dannii or your mother will have to pick you up instead" and then left it to Ryan to make the arrangements!! This stresses us all out because no-one wants an argument, but in my eyes, she should grow up and sort things out between the adults and NOT involve my mum by assuming she'll be alright driving down to pick Ryan up!!
My mum works and my step mum doesn't do a sodding thing all day!!
Anyway, I phoned my dad last Sunday asking if I could pop down on bank hol Mon to show him the DVD, he made out like I was going out of my way and told me not to "over do" it and to pop down when I have more time?!
Only to later discover he'd made his own plans - which is fine, but don't make me look the bad guy!!
Anyway, I text him during the week asking when he is free for me to pop over (he NEVER comes to me). No reply.
He's completely avoided it and never got back to me.
Anyway, last night I couldn't sleep, then my mum woke up in agony with severe tummy pains. I took her to emergency docs at 5 this morning. We didn't sleep until 7:30 this morning so she text my brother (Ryan) saying that she's had a rough night but will pick him up this afternoon instead of this morning if that was ok. Ryan said it was absolutely fine...
...Ryan told my step mum the plans and she went off on one apparently and started saying "For f*cks sake, why can't she come and get you? Dannii will have to come and get you instead then I'm afraid" blah blah blah!!
She told my dad a few months ago that she was worried about being left out when Evie is born - No she's f*cking not! She's scared because she hates me and wants my dad all to herself without a poxy baby getting in the way!!!
She sees it as yet another connection between my mum and dad and she hates it.
We even had to lie to her about my dad AND mum both being and my 20 week scan as she would have gone absolutely mad about it! She quizzed my brothers and said "did your mother go?" constantly.
I HATE her!! And I'm so angry with the way she speaks about my mum to my brothers and the way my dad NEVER says anything to her!! I'm so angry, but if I say anything my dad's whole side of the family are well known for disowning family members for having an opinion different to theirs!!
And to top it all off, my dad rings me this morning to ask about my mum. I told him she's fine now but was really poorly last night. I mentioned that I had been up all night too and he said "yeah ok, but how is mum?" - Yep! Don't give a crap about me!! And he STILL didn't mention me coming down this weekend to see my 4D scan
Part of me feels like just telling my dad I don't want anything to do with my step mum, and telling her that I am f*cking sick of the way she is, but my dad will tell me I'm being OTT and just trying to cause an argument.
PLEASE!! What would you do?!!
(By the way, my dad has disowned me several times over the last few years for stupid things like disagreeing with him...)
Me and my brothers never tell him what we really think of certain things because he gets angry.
xxx
Firstly, my step Mum is the most jealous person in the world and HATES my mum and at every opportunity will say things like "get your mother to come and get you" or "no, ask your mother to drop you off, I haven't got time" to my brothers.
My brother is 13 years old and lives with my dad about 25 mins drive away. My Mum ALWAYS drives down to pick him up and drop him off again every other weekend. My dad/step mum NEVER make the journey. To add fuel to the fire, there is a direct train link, 1 stop, 9 mins on the train and my dad and step mum won't let him get on the friggin' train on his own! Yet they've bought him a season ticket to go and see P'boro with his friend and they get on the train (30 min journey)... ON THEIR OWN.
Last week I had my 4D scan and planned to take my brothers (13 & 17 yrs). I told my step Mum that they'll have to get on the train to Sandy where I am so that I can drive to MK (if I picked them up it would mean driving 25 mins to my dads, then back up the A1, past Sandy, and another hour and a half to MK).
Friday night before my scan, my Mum tells me when I get in from work that Ryan (13 yrs) had called to say he's not allowed to get the train as Joe (17 yrs) is driving down on his DODGY moped that they bought him which would leave Ryan getting the train on his own. My step mum had said to him "well Dannii or your mother will have to pick you up instead" and then left it to Ryan to make the arrangements!! This stresses us all out because no-one wants an argument, but in my eyes, she should grow up and sort things out between the adults and NOT involve my mum by assuming she'll be alright driving down to pick Ryan up!!
My mum works and my step mum doesn't do a sodding thing all day!!
Anyway, I phoned my dad last Sunday asking if I could pop down on bank hol Mon to show him the DVD, he made out like I was going out of my way and told me not to "over do" it and to pop down when I have more time?!
Only to later discover he'd made his own plans - which is fine, but don't make me look the bad guy!!Anyway, I text him during the week asking when he is free for me to pop over (he NEVER comes to me). No reply.
He's completely avoided it and never got back to me.Anyway, last night I couldn't sleep, then my mum woke up in agony with severe tummy pains. I took her to emergency docs at 5 this morning. We didn't sleep until 7:30 this morning so she text my brother (Ryan) saying that she's had a rough night but will pick him up this afternoon instead of this morning if that was ok. Ryan said it was absolutely fine...
...Ryan told my step mum the plans and she went off on one apparently and started saying "For f*cks sake, why can't she come and get you? Dannii will have to come and get you instead then I'm afraid" blah blah blah!!
She told my dad a few months ago that she was worried about being left out when Evie is born - No she's f*cking not! She's scared because she hates me and wants my dad all to herself without a poxy baby getting in the way!!!
She sees it as yet another connection between my mum and dad and she hates it.We even had to lie to her about my dad AND mum both being and my 20 week scan as she would have gone absolutely mad about it! She quizzed my brothers and said "did your mother go?" constantly.
I HATE her!! And I'm so angry with the way she speaks about my mum to my brothers and the way my dad NEVER says anything to her!! I'm so angry, but if I say anything my dad's whole side of the family are well known for disowning family members for having an opinion different to theirs!!
And to top it all off, my dad rings me this morning to ask about my mum. I told him she's fine now but was really poorly last night. I mentioned that I had been up all night too and he said "yeah ok, but how is mum?" - Yep! Don't give a crap about me!! And he STILL didn't mention me coming down this weekend to see my 4D scan
Part of me feels like just telling my dad I don't want anything to do with my step mum, and telling her that I am f*cking sick of the way she is, but my dad will tell me I'm being OTT and just trying to cause an argument.
PLEASE!! What would you do?!!
(By the way, my dad has disowned me several times over the last few years for stupid things like disagreeing with him...)
Me and my brothers never tell him what we really think of certain things because he gets angry.
xxx
