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[Jayceesmumma]

bonus i get to see what he is like before we have the baby lol x

looool I like the idea that you get to try before you buy.

If it's any consolation I've been judged by others for years because we didn't have kids. We been together for decades and got told we've left it too late. As far as I'm concerned they can stuff it up there jumper, we did what was right for us.

Try before you buy love it!
Noone can judge you for enjoying life before kids! Thats harsh! Good on you!!
I wish i had more time before i had kids.. i wouldnt change it for the world but do wonder what i could have achieved. As i was getting my life back on track and having time for 'me' i fell preg with this one.. took a while for me to get used to it tbh but im ok now i can enjoy it knowing its probably my last chance (docs said)

 

[Lisa_85]

Jayceesmumma hope others wont judge us we had been with each other less than two mths when we found out we just protection but it happened i said to other half I would understand if he walked away but he didn't and he has been my rock

Hi

Im in the same situation but a lil more complex before the pregnancy, i left my husband in January, jumped straight into another relationship at the end of january and fell pregnant in March. My BF reaction was that he would understand if i couldnt keep it because i only just started my divorce and didnt know what would be happening in the future with me and him, i think he didnt want me to feel bad or guilty towards him if i didnt think i was ready. i told him i would never have an abortion and said i would understand if he wasnt ready. He told me he just wanted to be the best daddy he could be for crumpet and we would work things out as they go on. Luckily we are very compatible and he is smitten with me and crumpet (and i very much so the same with him ) i love how excited he gets when he talks about the baby.

People were very judgemental about me except my family and closest friends they are very supportive.
As my almost ex husband couldnt have his own children and with us being 25 decided to look into fertility knowing that it would be in about 5years time... no one understood that i wasnt ready to have a baby and was happy to have that time to prepare for one.

Well people didnt take it very well that i had accidently fell pregnant and now because its sunk in im happy about it, they all assumed i left because he couldnt give me children. Quite hurtful but then i can obviously feel for him and dont misjudge me... no one knows how many nights i cried myself to sleep for how bad i felt and still feel towards my ex.

So that my story so far... maybe a bit long winded though.. sorry for baffling on

xx

 

[Jazz]

Thank you all for not judging I have lost alot of friends but nice to no your not judged here x

 

[Jayceesmumma]

Lisa i really feel for you it must be so hard to deal with people who judge you and accuse you of leaving him because he couldnt have kids

Jazz noone will judge you here honey as you can see a few of us are in the same boat! We can all stick together and stick our fingers up to the world!! lol xx