Me and my other half have been together for 7 months it is a whirlwind romance and i love him sooo much. We have talked about a pregnancy even though i have a boy from a previous relationship who is 10 and he has 3 girls from a previous marriage full time, he proposed to me just one month after meeting and it has been very dreamy and wonderful, we decided the other day to start trying for our own child, so i came off the pill on Tuesday 2nd Nov and made love on the Friday, i know that i can concieve very quickly and it only has to be out of my system a couple of days so i know i have gotten caught. Saturday we had a big row and now he says he wants me to take the morning after pill as he thinks i am not emotionally ready. He has made me feel in a space of a week the happiest woman in the world and then the saddest.
I dont know what to do he says he does want one but he doesnt think i am ready for one, i told him that just because we have a row doesnt mean i love him any less, and that i am not ready, but he has made me feel like i am a freak and i have emotional problems when 99 % of the time we hardly ever argue.
He said are you going to take the pill and i said no because i want the baby and he said well when you go all emotional on me dont say i didnt tell you so, i said women get emotional when they are pregnant because there hormones are every where and he said he wouldnt be able to cope with that when it happens and that he might not stay.
I am so upset i dont know whether i am coming are going and i feel he is trying to control me.
Please help.
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I dont know what to do he says he does want one but he doesnt think i am ready for one, i told him that just because we have a row doesnt mean i love him any less, and that i am not ready, but he has made me feel like i am a freak and i have emotional problems when 99 % of the time we hardly ever argue.
He said are you going to take the pill and i said no because i want the baby and he said well when you go all emotional on me dont say i didnt tell you so, i said women get emotional when they are pregnant because there hormones are every where and he said he wouldnt be able to cope with that when it happens and that he might not stay.
I am so upset i dont know whether i am coming are going and i feel he is trying to control me.
Please help.