Unfortunately me and my other half have spent pretty much the entirety of our relationship under stress and upset....coming up for 3 years now and finally things have been resolved, our biggest problem has gone for good so now we've said we want to actually properly start trying once my jobs settled.. I left one job, got made redundant, then got taken back to my old job where I have in a month risen to a higher position then when I left AND will have my hours upped and put on a salary....so we wanna make sure my hours are set and I'm salaried until we get serious about trying....but my manager did say it would happen in the next few weeks anyway. So excited to think that hopefully in the near future I could be taking tests and hopefully getting the positive we all seek!