not wanting to wait

[HelenJ]

hi ladies,

do some of you have the same feeling during ovulation that you don't want to use birth control while having intercourse?

normally I dont mind if I have to use birth control because I cannot have a baby right now (and haven't even convinced my husband to try for a second one yet) but being intimate during ovulation time makes it really hard for me (especially since we use FAM as a birthcontrol method which means I always know when my fertile days are and when I am about to ovulate)

 

[Mamafy]

I think it's natures way of wanting us to procreate

 

[Rosie's Mummy]

I too think its innate and something that our brains tend to put at the forefront

 

[Mamafy]

Have you a date set for TTC hun?

 

[HelenJ]

Have you a date set for TTC hun?

No I still need to convince my hubby that we both want a second baby

My son is 8months tomorrow and I don't want to get pregnant before he is one year old (his birthday is the 5th of July) so when I convince my husband we will be trying from July 2010.

 

[Mamafy]

Not too long away

 

[mrsH2009]

I go through this every month too Hun

 

[HelenJ]

I go through this every month too Hun

thank you for the support (and the lovely smiley).

My husband said that he and I will have a serious conversation about ttc for a second baby when our mortgage gets through (we will probably hear this next week).

he said he likes the idea of having another one, but we need to talk because he thinks this will be hard for me (taking care of both children which will be a lot harder than one and also financial that it will be a lot more difficult since we only have one salary to live on and when we get our house it will be more expensive than our living costst are atm).

I am very excited and will keep you posted on this. (can you tel I'm excited ? hehe).

 

[charlene09]

Yes , Good luck hun I think everyone goes through this when they are ovulating Before i convinced OH to try I wanted to come off the pill and not tell him , but i think that was abit to steep and evil so I just confrtonted him and he wanted a baby :O I dint even know haha

 

[kellylou]

Good luck hun, it has taken us 18 months to decide to take the plunge and start trying for our first I have been waiting since Dec when I came off the pill and now I am so excited at what the future has in store for us xx Fingers crossed for u xx

 

[frankie247]

fingers crossed for you helen, but to answer your initial question i also feel the same.

 

[HelenJ]

Thank you all so much for the support My husband called to see if there is more information on our mortgage and he was told to call on friday because then they will know if it gets approved (and if that isn't the case monday will be the latest). I am so excited, not only because we are getting a house then (in October) but also the fact that we then have a real conversation about having a second child.

He knows I want to start trying in July and that is only 4 months away, so that is not long at all to wait. I can manage to use protection for 4 months during my fertile phase when I know we can try for real in 5 months hehe.