KoleIcepole
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Having twins, and we are so over the moon but can't lie and say we've had it easy it's been a pretty stressful couple of months and now me and my OH are just falling out something awful. I wasn't well this morning, bleeding etc, and was busy telling him how much I appreciate him and what would I do without him etc. Then I felt better and just wanted out the house, it's his only day off and I didn't want to spend it stuck in, so I said let's go for lunch but he was so grumpy about it and whenever I asked him if he wanted to go he would avoid the question. So I eventually asked him why and he hit out with his favourite line 'I just can't do anything right today can I? ' it was like a punch straight to the gut! I know I'm hormonal and I know I took it a bit over the top but I was so angry I'd spent the day thanking him and saying sorry for being unwell and as soon as there was something I said he didn't like he was making it out as if I was an arsehole all day but I don't think I was. His excuse was I was quiet and he just didn't want to go a walk, even though he knew I was quiet because I was unwell and despite that I was still talking to him. So fast forward a few hours and I try make it up to him (I feel daft for it now I should have left him) went to the shop got his favourite juice and ordered us some Chinese gave him a hug and said sorry. But he's still ignoring me. This isn't the first time and these aarguments last for days sometimes. It's the last thing I need right now and could really use some advice, thank you xx