LuW
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Well we've started to make full on plans (I say 'we'....=D). All pretty Alternative, well as far as my friends and family are concerned.
We've definately decided on a home birth, using a carrier most of the time, I'm definately going to attempt BF and we will be co-sleeping (mainly because it's going to be just me and baba during the weeks most of the time, so we thought why not!) and I definately, 100% being a stay at home mummy.
Those that know of our plans have brushed most of it off except the co-sleeping and the home birth. The home birth the most though.
I just don't know how to shut the people who are causing the trouble up. End of the day unless I really really need to have my child in hospital, I won't. They scared me and make me very very nervous. Luckily my closest friend understands and jumped at being there if OH can't be, its just other I thought would understand because they've already seen the state I get in at hospitals(even just visiting).
How on earth do I either ignore them, or get them to shut up atleast while their around me. Even just a witty remark to make them think twice would do!!
Thank you ladies!! (And sorry its long!!!)
Lu XXXXXXX
We've definately decided on a home birth, using a carrier most of the time, I'm definately going to attempt BF and we will be co-sleeping (mainly because it's going to be just me and baba during the weeks most of the time, so we thought why not!) and I definately, 100% being a stay at home mummy.
Those that know of our plans have brushed most of it off except the co-sleeping and the home birth. The home birth the most though.
I just don't know how to shut the people who are causing the trouble up. End of the day unless I really really need to have my child in hospital, I won't. They scared me and make me very very nervous. Luckily my closest friend understands and jumped at being there if OH can't be, its just other I thought would understand because they've already seen the state I get in at hospitals(even just visiting).
How on earth do I either ignore them, or get them to shut up atleast while their around me. Even just a witty remark to make them think twice would do!!
Thank you ladies!! (And sorry its long!!!)
Lu XXXXXXX