1sttimemum
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Hi All
This may be a bit of a taboo subject but i need to discuss it with people who may understand.
This timing of this pregnancy was not planned, ALL through this pregnancy i have felt guilty about the people who cannot have children and it accidentilly happened to us.
I have also felt very distant from the baby inside me. Ive had two scans and seen that there is a baby inside me, ive heard the heartbeat loads of times. Yet i dont feel any closer to it. We havent bought much stuff for the baby yet and have lots to do before the baby is here! Im not excited about being pregnant but im not hating it.
I dont look pregnant and dont feel it. I feel the baby kick and TBH it doesnt make me feel gooy or happy - i just feel empty. I'm dreading the birth although trying not to think about it.
I just dont no what to do. I feel like i should be xcited an giddy and everything else, but im not and didnt no who else to come to.
My OH says that cos im always on this site and through books and mags and films, i feel like i should be feeling a certain emotion but that isnt always the case.
I guess i am scared i am not bonding with the baby.....
Help?!
This may be a bit of a taboo subject but i need to discuss it with people who may understand.
This timing of this pregnancy was not planned, ALL through this pregnancy i have felt guilty about the people who cannot have children and it accidentilly happened to us.
I have also felt very distant from the baby inside me. Ive had two scans and seen that there is a baby inside me, ive heard the heartbeat loads of times. Yet i dont feel any closer to it. We havent bought much stuff for the baby yet and have lots to do before the baby is here! Im not excited about being pregnant but im not hating it.
I dont look pregnant and dont feel it. I feel the baby kick and TBH it doesnt make me feel gooy or happy - i just feel empty. I'm dreading the birth although trying not to think about it.
I just dont no what to do. I feel like i should be xcited an giddy and everything else, but im not and didnt no who else to come to.
My OH says that cos im always on this site and through books and mags and films, i feel like i should be feeling a certain emotion but that isnt always the case.
I guess i am scared i am not bonding with the baby.....
Help?!