Not Again

[Linsey]

Hi Everyone, I have had my third miscarridge in a year. This time it happened at 18 weeks into my pregnancy so i'm felling very empty at the moment and not sure what to be thinking really. The baby had died at 15 weeks and only found out last Tuesday after experiencing bleeding. The heart beat coud not be found. Me and my partner are gutted he his staying positive for me I don't know what It would of been like it if was not for him he has been great. The experience this time was quite bad I had to go into hospital and let it all happen on Thursday. I thought all was going so well this time as I lost the others at 5 ans 6 weeks this really was a shock to the system so unexpected.

If anyone wants to chat with similar experiences I'm hear and could do with the advice.


Kind Regards

Linsey xx

 

[budge]

oh what a terrible thing to happen. I feel for you and your partner.
Take care of yourself, ill be thinking of you

 

[LauraB]

Hi Linsey, and welcome to the forum. I have just miscarried this weekend - I was 5.5 weeks so not as far gone, this must have been an absolutely dreadful week for you and I am so sorry for your loss. I haven't much advice to offer, but just wanted to send you big hugs. xx

 

[Wobbles]

Hi Linsey

Sorry to hear what your going through. I have recently got over an ectopic pregnancy.

I can offer no advise bar keeping your head above water & thinking positive for the future.

 

[hels]

Oh Hun, im really sorry for your loss. I can empathise to extent, i have suffered one miscarriage at 8 weeks, and i found the thing that got me through it was talking it over with family OH and friends.
Once again, im sorry x

 

[sophie]

im really sory to hear of ur loss.
nearly 4 weeks ago i lost my baby at 14 weeks all though baby had died at about 12 wks, but didnt bleed till my 14th week.
im here if u need a chat.
xx

 

[Jaidy]

Hi hun,

So sorry to hear about your loss and other 2 miscarriages. Sending you all my love and hugs xxx

 

[Manda]

Sorry to hear of your loss, please don't give up trying. My friend has lost 3 between 15 and 20 weeks so was sent to see a specialist she had to take asprin every day and use peseries too she is now 36 weeks pregnant, so it can happen for you, keep strong and best way to help you is to talk about it don't bottle things up x

 

[Linsey]

Thankyou everyone that has replied to me and shared there thoughts. I'm most grateful for that.

Take care

Love

Linsey x x

 

[Anna Marie]

Hi Linsey,

So sorry to hear of your loss, you must be devastated and still in shock.. have they given you any idea what may have caused this late loss???

I suffered a m/c at 14 weeks 10 years ago.. to be honest I was in a bad relationship and was not taking care of myself as I should have been so the doctors implied that it was sort of my own fault [I was living in New York at the time and the consultants were not very kind to me ] and they did not investigate at all but when I came back to the UK 6 months later the docs here said that they would have done all sorts of tests to try to find cause.. I hope they offer you some similar care.

I remember how sad i felt.. and guilty after way docs treated me but the reality is that we sometimes have no control over such things and after my m/c last August at 8 weeks I realise that we just cannot know what will happen.. I am pregnant again [25 weeks gone] and still paranoid every day that something will go wrong and despite them taking great care of me and weekly scans to reassure me I know that if this LO was not able to make it there would be very little I could do... so please whatever you feel try to focus on the future... they will now investigate and take care of you so take comfort in the knowledge that if there is a cause or a problem they will find it and hopefully resolve it so that you can be back on the ttc wagon and be a mum one day soon xxxxx

Take care xxx

 

[*sam*]

Sorry to hear of your loss.

Big Hugs

Sam xx

 

[*saulino*]

Hi

so sorry for your lose my friend miscarried 3 times uin a year as well but told her they wont investigate till shes had 5 .
i hope they can figure out why it keeps happening and hope you get preg again soon.
good luck.
katrinaxxx