Hi
So sorry to hear your news.
The same happened to me in October, should of been 11 weeks and baby was only measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat in any of my three scans. I had terrible pregnancy symptoms so opted for the ERPC the next day. For me that was the best option, still took a week or so for symptoms to go and my boobs took even longer to return to normal.
I would say that you probably know in your heart what way you would prefer as I knew I didn't want to "pass the products" naturally as that would just hurt for me to see it. So in my case the ERPC was most definitely true right way to go. And I would go with what your heart is telling you to do. The hospital were amazing with both me and husband and I couldn't thank them enough, we got our own private room and everything. Was home for 1pm.
If you have any questions please feel free to PM me I totally know what your going through.
And as a silver lining I am pregnant again! So it happens hun I'm just so sorry this time it hasn't worked out for you
Xxx