Was told there was no heartbeat
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kanga86
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Hey Hun, I hope u are ok after ur erpc today. I had one last Friday 10 weeks after I mc'ed due to continued bleeding. I feel as though it offered some closure but I don't think I will feel total closure until I stop bleeding. Wishing u a speedy recovery 
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xxThanks kanga
i feel very tired and have a very sore throat, i've had no bleeding at all apart from a few spots, and it did give me and OH closure as we know that baby is at peace now.
How are you feeling? Hope the bleeding stops soon xx
i feel very tired and have a very sore throat, i've had no bleeding at all apart from a few spots, and it did give me and OH closure as we know that baby is at peace now.
How are you feeling? Hope the bleeding stops soon xx
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I only had a few spots for the first 2 days then the bleeding started again on Monday with cramps and a few small clots, still going strong now, rather fed up. I had a sore throat for a few days after too, and slept for 12hours straight on Friday night! Then 3 hours after getting up on Saturday I had another hour nap 
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XxI had no bleeding or pains before op at all so i'll just have to wait till they arrive, i'm so tired and could just sleep all night and day, cant wait for my bed. My OH has been brilliant stayed in the waiting room while had my op and then came into the recovery room while i was coming round and stayed with me till i was discharged which was about 3 hours xx
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I only had very light bleeding/spotting for a few days after d&c and then a period 26 days later.
Remember not to BD until 2 weeks after though - I got carried away and ended up with an infection which prolonged pains/recovery. I think the cervix stays open for a while after the surgery hence risk of infection.
Really hope you feel better soon babystar, it really sucks. Hope your family and friends are showering some love on you.
Kanga - your story makes me feel so bad for you, cos however bad it was the way it went for me, your story is far worse and still not over! You are so strong to handle it the way you do. Really hope we all get to "graduate" soon.
Remember not to BD until 2 weeks after though - I got carried away and ended up with an infection which prolonged pains/recovery. I think the cervix stays open for a while after the surgery hence risk of infection.
Really hope you feel better soon babystar, it really sucks. Hope your family and friends are showering some love on you.
Kanga - your story makes me feel so bad for you, cos however bad it was the way it went for me, your story is far worse and still not over! You are so strong to handle it the way you do. Really hope we all get to "graduate" soon.
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Thank u so much fliss, ur message have me goosebumps and put tears to my eyes it has been the roughest time of my life and feels as though it is one big dream that only happens to other people never yourself! I never thought for one second that something so amazing as making a baby could turn my life upside down. On Monday I have been mc'ing for as long as I was pregnant for, which sounds ridiculous!
I really don't feel so though I have been strong at all, just I whimp unwillingly to stand up for herself and keep getting fobbed off. Now I am really starting to worry why I am bleeding with clots so much still especially as there was hardly any after the op! Why is it so complicated!
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it has been the roughest time of my life and feels as though it is one big dream that only happens to other people never yourself! I never thought for one second that something so amazing as making a baby could turn my life upside down. On Monday I have been mc'ing for as long as I was pregnant for, which sounds ridiculous! I really don't feel so though I have been strong at all, just I whimp unwillingly to stand up for herself and keep getting fobbed off. Now I am really starting to worry why I am bleeding with clots so much still especially as there was hardly any after the op! Why is it so complicated!
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