xcharmanderx
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Hi all,
First post, I made this account because I really want to express this but I don't like how friends and family judge, rather than five constructive advice.
So I'm 29 weeks pregnant expecting my second child, but my partners first. Recently between me and him things have been weird.
At the beginning of my pregnancy he's seemed uninterested and didn't really express any of what he was thinking or feeling. As time had progressed and we've had the scans and I've got bigger, he's acted like he cares, but still not open with his feelings.
Now at the start of my third trimester things seem to have gotten worse rather than better like I had hoped. We're rarely intimate, and if we are he finishes and I don't. Seems to be like we just aren't connected anymore and I'm not sure why. Outside of the bedroom we get on and stuff, but we just aren't there same as before I got pregnant.
I'm so worried, I don't know what to do. I've bought this up with him, but we've never really had a proper conversation, and now I feel I've pushed it too many times to ask again.
I don't know what I expect you guys to say, I guess I just needed to vent.
Thanks for listening.
First post, I made this account because I really want to express this but I don't like how friends and family judge, rather than five constructive advice.
So I'm 29 weeks pregnant expecting my second child, but my partners first. Recently between me and him things have been weird.
At the beginning of my pregnancy he's seemed uninterested and didn't really express any of what he was thinking or feeling. As time had progressed and we've had the scans and I've got bigger, he's acted like he cares, but still not open with his feelings.
Now at the start of my third trimester things seem to have gotten worse rather than better like I had hoped. We're rarely intimate, and if we are he finishes and I don't. Seems to be like we just aren't connected anymore and I'm not sure why. Outside of the bedroom we get on and stuff, but we just aren't there same as before I got pregnant.
I'm so worried, I don't know what to do. I've bought this up with him, but we've never really had a proper conversation, and now I feel I've pushed it too many times to ask again.
I don't know what I expect you guys to say, I guess I just needed to vent.
Thanks for listening.