Oscar seems to sleep really well during the day, he'll often fall asleep after a feed and then I just transfer him to him travel cot and prop him up against his V pillow. He'll quite often slide off and find his own position, normally on his side where he'll sleep for hours.
Come night time we feed him and wait for him to drop off to sleep. The last couple of days he has been fighting sleep and keeping his eyes open and then crying because he is obviously overtired. We've tried a dummy which will help him drop off then we take him upstairs and put him in his moses basket. Then he seems to thrash about knocking the dummy out of his mouth and then he starts screaming until we pick him up and put him in or bed with us. He will then whinge and still try to stay awake until he eventually falls asleep on one of us. Then we try to put him back in his moses basket and the whole thing starts over again.
I am almost at my wits end. Now OH is back at work, I feel so guilty that this is waking him up and making him tired during the day. He is great and helps try to settle Oscar at least 50% of the time, if not more. I also hate the co-sleeping, we've being forced into doing. I can't sleep properly and it just feels wrong to me that he is in our bed (sorry I don't mean to offend those who co-sleep, it just isn't for me). The whole situation is making me really weepy, at night and during the day.
Does anyone have any solutions or are we stuck like this until he gets a bit older? We've tried a hot water bottle/our clothes/breast pads in the basket. The end is elevated too and we've tried swaddling.
Also the other thing is everyone else I know in real life doesn't seem to have a baby that cries loads like we do. Is it just just something that parents don't mention or am I in the minority with a whinging, crying baby?
Come night time we feed him and wait for him to drop off to sleep. The last couple of days he has been fighting sleep and keeping his eyes open and then crying because he is obviously overtired. We've tried a dummy which will help him drop off then we take him upstairs and put him in his moses basket. Then he seems to thrash about knocking the dummy out of his mouth and then he starts screaming until we pick him up and put him in or bed with us. He will then whinge and still try to stay awake until he eventually falls asleep on one of us. Then we try to put him back in his moses basket and the whole thing starts over again.
I am almost at my wits end. Now OH is back at work, I feel so guilty that this is waking him up and making him tired during the day. He is great and helps try to settle Oscar at least 50% of the time, if not more. I also hate the co-sleeping, we've being forced into doing. I can't sleep properly and it just feels wrong to me that he is in our bed (sorry I don't mean to offend those who co-sleep, it just isn't for me). The whole situation is making me really weepy, at night and during the day.
Does anyone have any solutions or are we stuck like this until he gets a bit older? We've tried a hot water bottle/our clothes/breast pads in the basket. The end is elevated too and we've tried swaddling.
Also the other thing is everyone else I know in real life doesn't seem to have a baby that cries loads like we do. Is it just just something that parents don't mention or am I in the minority with a whinging, crying baby?