Hi
We have a bit of a dilemma on our hands. I have may first scan on Wednesday, and if everything is fine, we were going to tell my in laws about the baby this week.
However, my sister-in-law has just had another failed attempt at IVF. My Mother-in-Law is so upset and depressed about her daughter not being able to have a baby, that I don't think it would be a good idea for us to even mention it for a few weeks. It's almost as though she's living it herself, if you know what I mean. She has two grandchildren and a step grandchild already.
What should we do?
I've been thinking for a long time that if I already had my own children, I would be more than happy to offer to be a surrogate mother for her. However, I don't, so this isn't an option. I really feel sorry for her.
Z
We have a bit of a dilemma on our hands. I have may first scan on Wednesday, and if everything is fine, we were going to tell my in laws about the baby this week.
However, my sister-in-law has just had another failed attempt at IVF. My Mother-in-Law is so upset and depressed about her daughter not being able to have a baby, that I don't think it would be a good idea for us to even mention it for a few weeks. It's almost as though she's living it herself, if you know what I mean. She has two grandchildren and a step grandchild already.
What should we do?
I've been thinking for a long time that if I already had my own children, I would be more than happy to offer to be a surrogate mother for her. However, I don't, so this isn't an option. I really feel sorry for her.
Z