new to this and really fed up!

[tash]

Hi everyone

I am new to this, have been TTC for a year now and have just doen a test, yet again it is negative. Each month it gets worse and i get more and more down.

Everyone says it will happen 'one day' but i am beginning to wonder when/if that day will be.

started using the clear blue fertility monitor this month so was even more hopeful. as a result i am even more down that usual.

I just need some support cos i know im not alone

 

[rachaellouise]

I am sorry I have no advise for you as we have only just started trying.
Did not want to read and run, you are not alone, there are lots of people out there who are having trouble getting pregnant, who knows I may be one of them and may be posting like you
Try not to feel too down, I know it is depressing but it will happen just keep at it and try to be as positive as possible

 

[midnight]

now you have been trying a year i think you are able to get test off the dr to make sure you are both fully fertile but its good that you now have a fertility moniter so will be able to pin point your fertile days hope you get your bfp soon though xx

 

[xshauna_bazx]

You have come to the right place if you want support

Seen as you have just started using the fertility monitor...you have a great chance of catching ovulation so more

likely to get pregnant...i hope it works for you, you never know this month could be the month? think positive and

good luck.

 

[LouiseB]

Hiya Tash

I hate it when people say it will happen one day - it's just a stupid thing to say because it isn't necessarily true and certainly doesn't feel true when you are actually ttc.

I have a clear blue fertility monitor for the first time last cycle and it hit me really hard when i got a BFN, i still feel pretty bitter about the whole situation and it really isn't like me but i can't help it.

All you can do is keep on trying.

I sent my OH to the GP only yesterday to be referred for a semen analysis - he is diabetic and told them we'd been trying for over a year (a lie) - and he should have the results in a fortnight completely free of charge on the Nhs so that will be a weight off my mind to know for sure.

I would definately be looking into diagnostics if you have been trying for over a year.

 

[sparkle82]

Hey Hun, def speak 2 ur doc, me & my oh wer tested afta a year. It helps 2 no everythings ok

good luck xx