New people come, new people go but i'm still here!!

[CazH]

Feeling a bit down today, seeing a lot of new people on site but as quick as they join they get their BFP (which is great) and then they go. But i'm still here ...................... when can i go to the pregnant post!!!!
Wish i could have fell within 3 mths boo hoo
Moan over, why is something so natural so hard to do!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

[notty]

I'm coming up to a year TTCing so i know how you feel Although i do love seeing childless women getting their BFPs... it gives me and others hope
It will be your time soon

 

[A&J]

Hi I am still here coming up to month 10 of ttc so know how you both feel. I do love seeing people get their BFPs it does give me hope. We will get there.

Sending us all sticky babydust

 

[Petra]

Hiay, don't worry. I have been here for 8 months. Was pregnant once but miscarried

Hope we get BFP soon

 

[skairdykat]

I'm still here too, I'm sure we'll get there in the end.

 

[Kittykins]

I joined only a week after you, and I'm still here too There are loads of ppl around who've been on longer than us.

But yes, I know what you mean. I'm happy for everyone who gets their BFP, but sometimes it gets me down that someone joins and a week later announces their BFP and moves on to first tri. It probably sounds really horrible of me, but I occasionally think 'couldn't they have waited a week and gone straight to first tri without rubbing my nose in it?' We'll get there... one day... in the meantime, there are quite a lot of us around for company!

On a practical note, I have my CD21 blood tests tomorrow, so the investigation begins My doctor was happy to start at 6 months because a) I have all my FF charts, which indicate that we've BDed at the right times, that I am ovulating but that there's a potential thyroid/progesterone problem and b) we're in our 30s (DH is 40 soon) so he'll speed things up. Maybe worth asking?

 

[elviedee]

Im still relatively new on here, but been ttc since january 2006 with an ectopic in october last year... im seriously hoping that i've worked out why its taken us so long - from using opks for first time last cycle we worked out we'd been concentrating the BDing about 4 days early EVERY MONTH

lol... I hope that's the reason anyway!

We'll all get there

x

 

[Loola]

Im with you all ladies Even though I havent been on here all that long, Im into my 11th month of TTC now. There was me thinking 6 months max it would take us! My 2 best friends have got pregnant and had their babies since me and my OH decided we should start TTC (We made the decision in Feb last year that we would start trying in the Summer).
We will get there in the end girls I cant wait to see your BFPs!

 

[*longing*to*be*a*mum*]

im new but im still trying after 2 years but im not going to give up i hope mine and everyones time comes soon

baby dust to everyone

 

[libs]

you've not even been here long enough to get dusty yet now Skairdy, jenna, mum2be and I (and others) have to dust ourselves down every now and then

think of people like G3M though - all that time...but it does happen and now she's holding her LO. Take a look round at third tri and lots of them were ttcers who took months to conceive - you'll get there, don't worry

 

[LucyBee]

Hang on in there! It took me a year of TTC and I felt the same as you but it will happen!! Your time will come!

 

[CazH]

Its nice to know i'm not alone with my thoughts, just so frustrating sometimes. I work in a bank and the amount of people I see with kids just depresses me. Some of them are so young and say it was a complete accident or oh no fell right away. God Damn!

Big kisses and hugs to the TTC's we will get there and one day will be able to add a pregnant ticker on our profile and then a pic of our beautiful baby!!

I am so determined to fall before I'm 30 (28 now 29 in may) why is 30 such a landmark??????????????

 

[mum2be?]

im still here TTC since sep 06

 

[libs]

Its nice to know i'm not alone with my thoughts, just so frustrating sometimes. I work in a bank and the amount of people I see with kids just depresses me. Some of them are so young and say it was a complete accident or oh no fell right away. God Damn!

Big kisses and hugs to the TTC's we will get there and one day will be able to add a pregnant ticker on our profile and then a pic of our beautiful baby!!

I am so determined to fall before I'm 30 (28 now 29 in may) why is 30 such a landmark??????????????

mine was to be married before I was 30 - I got married exactly a week afterwards everyone here feels the same at some point - no one is ever patient about ttcing

 

[Chrissy1]

This will probably make things worse with what's happened, but I was here for months and months and each month I would feel like you do now.

It's so so hard and frustrating TTC when it's just not happening but it seems like everyone else around you just needs to think 'I want a baby' and that's it....they're pregnant!

all I can say is to keep trying.... I didn't think it would happen for us, I was so convinced I had been to the docs early because I wanted to know what was wrong with us so that it stopped the wondering but it has happened and I can honestly say that if it wasn;t for the support of you girls all TTC and going through the same thing I would have given up more than once.

You have a fantasic support structure on here and eventually you will all get your BFP's and I'll be keeping an eye out and cheering you all on

chin up babes.....

 

[mrs_metal]

I am so determined to fall before I'm 30 (28 now 29 in may) why is 30 such a landmark??????????????

Think yourself lucky, I'm trying to get babies before I'm 40

but seriously, good luck Caz I really hope you get your BFP soon

 

[Kittykins]

I am so determined to fall before I'm 30 (28 now 29 in may) why is 30 such a landmark??????????????

mine was to be married before I was 30 - I got married exactly a week afterwards everyone here feels the same at some point - no one is ever patient about ttcing

I met my DH when I was 19, we started a relationship when I was 21. I'd planned to marry at 25, and have baby #1 at 27, baby #2 18m later and baby #3 18m later again, at 30. Sadly DH had other ideas... he finally proposed on my 30th b'day, and that was only because my best (male) friend texted him to remind DH that he (best friend) and I had made a pact at 18 that if we were both unmarried at 30, we'd marry each other before the year was out... I think DH was a bit surprised to discover he had competition after ten years of complacency!

 

[Loola]

What is it about 30?! Im the same about having a baby before I reach 30, or at least being pregnant. Ive never been bothered about marriage thankfully. Well Ive only got this month and next left to get pregnant or Ill be a Mum at 30 rather than 29.

 

[satch]

I'm not getting any younger. I'm 31, so I'm thinking that time is ticking...and with AF showing this morning I'm wondering when "it's" going to happen.

I was wondering whether its worth buying a fertility test and then at least I know what the position is? I saw that they had something in Boots - I presume this is just for the ladies?

Should I get my DH to try something aswell - does anyone know of an over the counter test for men?

I don't want to go the doctors as we've only been trying a few months, but I'm also quite aware that if there is a problem somewhere, it would be better to know sooner rather than later.

 

[emx279]

ive been trying since my youngest was born and still no luck.