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[Stephanie91]

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[Princess81]

Well, looking at it from a female/male perspective, if my sons Dad had shown me pictures of other women, saying how sexy they were I'd go mad, whether he was drunk or sober!
Why should she be allowed to say that to you?? I'm sorry, if she really did Love you she wouldn't be so hurtful especially if she knows it's making you insecure. Really poor behaviour xx

 

[merlin]

Sorry to say I agree with princess, that really is no way to behave or treat you!

 

[Sophie_P]

I'd be fuming with my wife!

 

[kat1988]

Sorry but I agree, that's incredibly disrespectful, pregnancy makes u feel insecure especially about your body and she should be being supportive not adding fuel to your fears!

 

[leesey]

My husband made me feel un-sexual when I was pregnant, but never in a purposeful way, more to do with subconscious avoidance which he felt awful about. If he had ever done something like that he'd have been sleeping on his mum's couch til he knew how to properly treat me.

It sounds to me that either she is just a rubbish, disrespectful girlfriend (whether drunk or not, that's no excuse), or she's punishing you in a weird twisted way. I know you were on-off, but she may view it as cheating, and the baby being the result of that she's taking it out on the bump if you know what I mean.

Either way, there's something underlying her behaviour. I suggest having a proper, honest heart to heart, or even better go to couples therapy. That kind of attitude to another human being is not acceptable around a child, it's abuse plain and simple. It can affect the way a child thinks and acts towards others if they are brought up in that kind of environment.

Sort it asap or get rid, not acceptable in the slightest xx

 

[Stephanie91]

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[Sophie_P]

No your not beinf over sensitive, I'm married to a woman and I don't feel this way so that may be your answer. You should talk to her x

 

[Stephanie91]

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