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[Linny1989]

Need a rant basically.
I feel like I'm foung everything on my own. My oh used to work then I became ill.with pains. 26 weeks pregnant so he had a week off work to help with the kids. 3 and 1. That was lovely. Then he lost his job coz.couldn't keep him on as he was agency and didn't no when would be back. But now I feel like I'm on my own. He's messed his sleep up again. My hip is fucked. He let's me have a lay in which is lovely but that doesn't help me the rest of the day. He's asleep in the day and awake at night. We used to have this problem not so long back. When he is awake he's ok. But we also have different views on how we raise the kids. Routine. Disaplin. Etc. And also im hormonal which dont help.

Am I just being rediculous or do i have a point? It's like he can also sleep through the noise of kids. I can't do that. Lucky for him ay! And the fact he just sleeps on the sofa in the day. Makes me mad. He had a motor bike accident in 07 and has a bad leg. He's on tablets that apparently makes him sleep loads?? I'm at my wits end. I can't keep doing this. I need help and its making me miserable.

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[MrsR]

What does he say when you speak to him about it?

 

[Linny1989]

He says his trying to sort his sleep out. He says he let's me lay in the morning. but I say to him. Yea its lovely to lay in but that don't help me the rest of the day when Ur asleep. That's the only thing that mainly gets to me is the sleep!

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[lottielou]

Hey linny. I defs dont think your been daft. That would drive me demented. 26 weeks pregnant is loads harder than i thought it would be physically. I think you ladies who have kiddies already are amazing coz i dont know how id cope!!. Im the worst person for advice. But if u need a chat pm me anytime. X

 

[Linny1989]

Thank u hun. It is hard work but I love my kids and wouldn't change anything about them. Yes they are hard work but what 3 and 1 year old isn't. I just don't like feeling I have no patience for them coz it isn't there fault x

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[lottielou]

Yeah i see what you mean. Everyone says kids are tiring but 100% worth it. I guess if your oh does manage to get the sleeping sorted that would be a huge help. . I once ended up having a really crazy body clock and the gp prescribed me some medication. I cant remember what it was but it really helped me to sleep at night. xx

 

[Linny1989]

I no he can do it tho because he has before but always manages to go back again. Just dunno how much more I can take. It's.not fair on me or the kids. Them seeing dad asleep on sofa all day xx

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[HopesDreams]

Maybe he needs to look at changing his meds Linny? If he were to get another job he wouldn't be able to perform if he's so drowsy?? It's good that he lets you have a lie in but it would be better if he gave you a hand, he's got to realise that. I'm 38 weeks pregnant, no other kids & I'm wiped!!!! I can only imagine being pregnant & having 2 little ones to take care of. Love & hugs to you sweetie.

 

[CeeCee]

It's not good that he's messed up his sleeping pattern at all: my OH sleeps most the day away & it gets me mad with zero kids.

Think he needs to start pulling his weight around the house if he's not working now he can help you with bits and bobs rather than just leaving you to it.

A lie in in the morning is great but it doesn't help you clean, tidy, wash up play with the kids.

Think it's worth goin over with with your OH. X

 

[Linny1989]

I think the tabs would be fine if he slept at night and awake in day. I don't think the tabs are making him sleep in day. It's coz he's so tired from being awake all night. It really is difficult hun n he needs to change it before I get to far pregnant as my hips ain't gonna take much more cleaning kids and general day to day x

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[Linny1989]

I no ceecee. Like when he's sleep is sorted and he's awake he does help. But by that point Ive done most of it ya no. X

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[HopesDreams]

You're too good to him. *hug* I'd be a lot less tolerant, I'd boot his arse off the sofa.

 

[Linny1989]

Lol thanks hun. Sometimes I just cba. Just leave him there. It's his problem not mine lol

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