Piglet's Mama
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...and sorry ladies, this is going to be a long one.
The long and the short, my OH's family are doing my head in. Comments from hubby's uncle:
"Oh what a horrible time to be pregnant in the summer"
"Oh and your baby will bottom of the class in school, that's a shame"
Then to top it off, and just to set the scene hubby and I eloped when we got married...
"Can I just say, because we all missed out when you got married, it would be totally inappropriate if you didn't have a christening..."
Then SIL didn't even react when we told her, she said "I KNEW something was going on, why didn't you tell ME, I will be the baby's only REAL auntie". Then she comes round yesterday, I'm wasn't in so she's referring to me as SHE and HER and the baby as IT, to the point hubby says "Who is she She?" and saying nasty things about me like "I bet SHE won't even let us babysit" and "Will you get IT christened as SHE is catholic and that will cause some drama" I HATE HER!
As well as that, her and the MIL are so besides themselves about the baby they have gone out already and bought stuff. I've said to hubby I don't want anything in the house yet, it's too early and if anything goes wrong I don't want to have to deal with that on top of everything else... they know my Mum lost a baby at full term and this plays on my mind, plus we haven't even had our nuchal screening yet or anything. So I asked hubby to tell SIL this. Now she's either thick or he's too soft and hasn't told her as she texts this morning saying can I come round with a present? I had to text her in the end and say I'm not being ungrateful but it's too early for these things. She then makes me feel guilty saying she got me a frame of "Baby's First Scan" - well I have something like this already as it's MY FIRST BABY! Why is she buying me this? So she texts saying "do you not want it?" And I feel like saying "I don't want anything from you - f8ck off!" but instead I'm like "Well I have something like that as it's my first baby and I've bought myself something like that..."
Girls - am I too sensitive or is my SIL a f8cking nutter like I already think? She has done nothing but make these last couple of weeks a misery for me. She ruined the day we had the scan for my hubby because she didn't even say congratulations, she's been two faced behind my back, undermining me, making me feel guilty. I can't deal with her. I keep thinking it is going to be 100 times worse when baby is actually here.
I just don't know what to do. No doubt she will be slagging me off now to hubby and my MIL but I actually don't care. I can feel my heart thudding and I'm so stressed I could cry!
Rant over x
The long and the short, my OH's family are doing my head in. Comments from hubby's uncle:
"Oh what a horrible time to be pregnant in the summer"
"Oh and your baby will bottom of the class in school, that's a shame"
Then to top it off, and just to set the scene hubby and I eloped when we got married...
"Can I just say, because we all missed out when you got married, it would be totally inappropriate if you didn't have a christening..."
Then SIL didn't even react when we told her, she said "I KNEW something was going on, why didn't you tell ME, I will be the baby's only REAL auntie". Then she comes round yesterday, I'm wasn't in so she's referring to me as SHE and HER and the baby as IT, to the point hubby says "Who is she She?" and saying nasty things about me like "I bet SHE won't even let us babysit" and "Will you get IT christened as SHE is catholic and that will cause some drama" I HATE HER!
As well as that, her and the MIL are so besides themselves about the baby they have gone out already and bought stuff. I've said to hubby I don't want anything in the house yet, it's too early and if anything goes wrong I don't want to have to deal with that on top of everything else... they know my Mum lost a baby at full term and this plays on my mind, plus we haven't even had our nuchal screening yet or anything. So I asked hubby to tell SIL this. Now she's either thick or he's too soft and hasn't told her as she texts this morning saying can I come round with a present? I had to text her in the end and say I'm not being ungrateful but it's too early for these things. She then makes me feel guilty saying she got me a frame of "Baby's First Scan" - well I have something like this already as it's MY FIRST BABY! Why is she buying me this? So she texts saying "do you not want it?" And I feel like saying "I don't want anything from you - f8ck off!" but instead I'm like "Well I have something like that as it's my first baby and I've bought myself something like that..."
Girls - am I too sensitive or is my SIL a f8cking nutter like I already think? She has done nothing but make these last couple of weeks a misery for me. She ruined the day we had the scan for my hubby because she didn't even say congratulations, she's been two faced behind my back, undermining me, making me feel guilty. I can't deal with her. I keep thinking it is going to be 100 times worse when baby is actually here.
I just don't know what to do. No doubt she will be slagging me off now to hubby and my MIL but I actually don't care. I can feel my heart thudding and I'm so stressed I could cry!
Rant over x
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