had my 2nd mc at about 6 weeks on christmas day - I never get a real bfp so until it started I couldn't be sure I was pregnant.
I was ok - I'm quite philosophical about mcs. But now - having had a month of spotting, still with v painful bbs, exhausted etc (but still with signs of ov at the right time) , I had a 2 day AF. At least - I thought - I can get back to normal again.
Then after a 24 hour break, I started spotting again last night which lead to a heavier bleed for a little while. Now I'm back to spotting
my GP mentioned after each mc that my womb was bulky - the first time she said she wasn't concerned that my body seemed to have responded quickly to being pregnant and that would be good. This time she looked like this
and the phrase d&c if necessary was kind of mumbled......she didn't suggest I go back for a check up though.
So is it time to go back? And if I do need one how long do I have to wait? Do they usually get you in quite quick - especially anyone in North Staffs PCT? I just want this done and gone away now. Having got all the way through without crying much, now I want to sit here and bawl my eyes out about how unfair all this is.
and I know this is really ttc with problems - but I'll ask anyway - does anyone have fibroids and would they be discovered whilst having a d&c? that was the other thing she put on my notes (I can read upside down, across a room or in a mirror
) as a possibility - but then mentioned nothing (having told me in August that she didn't think I had them)
and do they always scan you before a d&c? - I know its stupid but I worry that just in case..you know..and it would haunt me
god this is so long sorry - but overnight I seem to have just sunk into this
I was ok - I'm quite philosophical about mcs. But now - having had a month of spotting, still with v painful bbs, exhausted etc (but still with signs of ov at the right time) , I had a 2 day AF. At least - I thought - I can get back to normal again.
Then after a 24 hour break, I started spotting again last night which lead to a heavier bleed for a little while. Now I'm back to spotting
my GP mentioned after each mc that my womb was bulky - the first time she said she wasn't concerned that my body seemed to have responded quickly to being pregnant and that would be good. This time she looked like this
and the phrase d&c if necessary was kind of mumbled......she didn't suggest I go back for a check up though. So is it time to go back? And if I do need one how long do I have to wait? Do they usually get you in quite quick - especially anyone in North Staffs PCT? I just want this done and gone away now. Having got all the way through without crying much, now I want to sit here and bawl my eyes out about how unfair all this is.
and I know this is really ttc with problems - but I'll ask anyway - does anyone have fibroids and would they be discovered whilst having a d&c? that was the other thing she put on my notes (I can read upside down, across a room or in a mirror
) as a possibility - but then mentioned nothing (having told me in August that she didn't think I had them) and do they always scan you before a d&c? - I know its stupid but I worry that just in case..you know..and it would haunt me
god this is so long sorry - but overnight I seem to have just sunk into this
