My libido...

[saralou5]

Has disappeared. Gone. Vanished. Any other adjectives you can think of. I'm not sure where it's gone, but I'm pretty sure my OH would like it to come back just as much as I would! Everyone's been saying 'Oooh you wait and see, you'll be jumping on anything that moves!'. So far in this pregnancy...BUGGER ALL! I feel the opposite if anything. Deary me.

Anyone else? Please tell me I'm not alone in this!

 

[dollface79]

My problem is i don't want it at night as i'm just too tired... which is the only time we can have it as OH works days!!! I would gladly go 10 rounds on an afternoon but can't... he wants to go ten rounds on a night and i wont lol!!

I'm pretty sure you are not alone though hun!!!!

 

[michaelsmum]

I lost my libido in the first tri mainly due to tiredness. I'm not as tired now but still find I'd much rather have it in the morning when I'm well rested! lol It's rare we have a morning when neither one of us is going to work and my 8 year old DS is at his dad's though, so mainly it's just trying to get to bed early which isn't easy.

I do find that if I think about doing it, I think I'm too tired to bother, but once we're into it, it's fantastic. Sometimes I just need a bit of reminding what I'm missing! lol

 

[Sproglett]

Yeah mines buggered off too, it's nothing to worry about its just really frustrating lol, my dh I think would like mine back too, and of I'm honest so would I before bump is massive and I feel like I'm 'bouncing' lol sorry tmi! My mate had this with one of her pregnancies, where as her other pregnancy she'd have jumped on me of I'd have let her lol. x x

 

[cosmicgirl]

Mine went years ago lol
You'll probably get it back in tri 3, when you'll be too big to do anything about it lol x

 

[Violet]

Mine ran away near the beginning of tri 1 when I got a really bad cold before I knew I was pg and I haven't seen it since. It doesn't bother me but I think OH gets a bit frustrated. We've dtd a few times and mostly it's been ok once we get going, but it's either been as we've gone to bed or in the middle of the night when he wakes up horny lol which really isn't the best time for me.

I find the middle of the afternoon is when I feel like it, but he's at work then. I think about using my rabbit, but I'm not sure how safe this is.

 

[Tara1985]

Mine has seriously gone with the wind It left me early on and although I try and get in the'mood' the last couple of times have been a bit uncomfortable at climax....I actually squeeze OH out so he's still left with nothing once I'm done LOL

xx

 

[saralou5]

Yeah mines buggered off too, it's nothing to worry about its just really frustrating lol, my dh I think would like mine back too, and of I'm honest so would I before bump is massive and I feel like I'm 'bouncing' lol sorry tmi! My mate had this with one of her pregnancies, where as her other pregnancy she'd have jumped on me of I'd have let her lol. x x

Hahaha! Bouncing! That's brilliant! My friend was randy as anything when she was pg. It was hilarious!
The trials and tribulations of pregnancy! LOL!

 

[saralou5]

I imagine this is what it's like to be starting menopause! LOL! The hope is it comes back once Uni is all finished and I can relax a little more. Maybe I'm too tense. Violet I don't even feel the urge to use mine hahaha! It's gonna grow cobwebs...as am I at this rate ahahaha!

 

[calphurnia7]

libido what's that ROFL, that disappeared in January

 

[saralou5]

libido what's that ROFL, that disappeared in January

 

[Water_Melon]

Mines been gone since tri.1.. Not to mention the fact I've been worried to have sex incase it affects the baby some how. We've only done it a few times since I fell pregnant!! :/

 

[Jayjay027]

I think mine might be trying to make a return, ssshhhh don't make any sudden noises or u might scare it away!!

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[Karate Kid]

Well I am only up for it once a week and that is usually weekends! I am just to tired on weekday evenings xx

 

[Amylize]

Mine has gone too! But i think its the same reason once i am in bed im practically asleep straight away!

 

[saralou5]

I think the fact that it's now becoming increasingly difficult to 'organise' myself these days doesn't help! I may have to invest in a wax soon! Starting to look like hagrid.

And lol Jayjay! That reminds me of Friends!

 

[FirstBabyEek]

I defo lost mine in Tri1 but its come back with a bit of a vengence in the last few weeks, granted I'm usually tired and cant be bothered but if I do make the effort, with all the increased blood flow down there its brilliant. DH is worried I'm not going like dtd so much after being pg! ha ha!
xx

 

[SarahCarps2be]

Lol mine was okay until about a week ago, mines buggered off too.

But my OH doesn't have the highest of sex drives anyway, he'll quite happily go without it and cuddle up instead.
Just typical when I actually want it I don't get it so thats probably whats put me off!

 

[CARNAT22]

So it doesn't get batter in Tri 2 then ladies???? Boo hiss!!

Due to history of m/c OH is on a sex ban until after 12 week scan.

To be honest I have not missed it all that much but I have missed the closeness and intimacy that having sex brings....

My OH must be so confused as we've gone from being sex fiends whilst TTC to abstaining totally

xxxxxxxxx

 

[Em91]

Mines actually started coming back! but like a few of you have said its during the day when Oh is at work! not at night. He's been getting a bit fustrated I think, so stopped trying.. now I want to he stops asking lol!