Hopefully I won't do this! My fiancé and I have a very strong opinion of why sort of behaviour we expect from Imogen. We have already talked about the fact that we will expect our second child to behave as beautifully as Imogen does (most of the time!) we won't be using her downs syndrome as an excuse for any sort of bad behaviour! Luckily this expectation is already within me after all of my years as a teacher- my own daughters will not get away with anything, just as the children in my class don't! Ha!