My baby has died

[LouisecH]

Hi Fruityloop,

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news.

Exactly the same thing happened to me before I had Zara. I went for a scan at 12 weeks because I didn't feel pregnant and my waist had come back. The scan showed the baby had died at around 11 weeks.

I was devistated and I felt like I'd been robbed. The feelings are indescribable really but it took me a while to come to terms with it. I was pregnant with Zara 3 months later which helped but I'll never forget those feelings. My heart goes out to you.

I decided to have the Op too and I have never regretted it. I felt the same as you about it.

I hope you feel better - physically - soon and that emotionally you allow yourself plenty of grieving time.

to you and your family.

Louise x

 

[sonia205]

thts a rely nice message loiuse, im sure when she reads tht she will feel better knowing she isnt the only one.
We are all here for you all!

xx

 

[fruityloop]

Hi everyone,

I've just got home from the hospital. I had my operation at midnight last night after a long wait due to emergencies taking priority over me.

I'm still a bit light headed but I prefer to be in my own bed to a hospital bed. I feel very relieved that it is over. I am in quite a bit of pain and my emotions are all over the shop but I'm coping.

I feel totally overwhelmed by the support I've received from all of you lovely ladies and my personal friends and family. I even received a beautiful vase full of flowers and some chocolates from my employers which were sitting here when I got home. I can't thank everyone enough for being here for me during such a difficult time.

I am going to spend the next week letting the pain subside and rest as much as possible. I had a nasty infection inside me which didn't help the way I was feeling. I hope to start feeling a lot better within a couple of days.

Thanks again to everybody for your kind words and support. I cannot express how much it means to me.

With love
Tina (fruityloop)
xxx

 

[sonia205]

Arh Tina, dont worry darlin' you are Very very very very welcome!
I along with many woman can only imagine what youo are feeling right now and i hope you feel better real soon!

take sweetie n remember we r all here when u wanna talk ...

lots of luv n cuddles

sonia n family
xxxxxxx

 

[Layla]

xxxxxx

 

[stephlw25]

Thinking of you hun xxx

 

[loulou1980]

thinking of you

 

[Wobbles]

Rest up lot's.

Home is best they sent me home the next day too, I think they were fedup of me fighting the corridor for a fag every 10 minutes but I needed to.

Thinking of you so much

 

[TipsyDipsy]

Oh i'm so sorry for your loss hunny.

 

[sonia205]

its a terrible thing to go thru alone if u can face it try and have company, your other half is a gd start!

 

[sonia205]

by the way can i ask where people get that huggin emoticon from?? I only havea box <--- there and it doesnt have tht on, am i missin somet?

 

[sonia205]

erm.. opps...

2 u babes xx
cant belive wat a dosey cow i am lol

 

[Little Miss Joslyn]

(((((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))) are being sent your way hun. Nothing i can say will make you feel any better but I have had this , what they call a "missed miscarriage" too and I really feel for you as i know how painful it is and it was like a bad dream for me. So sorry for your loss x

 

[rusks]

just seen this fruityloop but wanted you to know that i have been thinking of you and feeling for you, and still am. i hope your physical pain eases soon. always here for you hunny, so sorry again for your loss xx

 

[Sarah&Braydon]

im so so so sorry hun (((hugs)))

 

[claireabell]

so sorry for your loss, all our thoughts are with you...
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[pickles]

Im so sorry............

 

[Emma22]

only just read this post fruityloop, im so sorry for your loss, thoughts are with you. x