Moving on...

[Cazzlou]

Maybe-mummy I'm same as you now tbh x

 

[BevG]

i think a lot of us feel this way really, im not the most talkative and find it hard to make good froends in real life let alone on the internet. i just try to remembr that its nothing personal, noone on here actually knows me so it cant be. ive never had a really close friend really so i wouldnt know what to look for anyway or how to go about it lol. dont leave hun everyone means well and noone is ignoring you on purpose, a lot of ppl wont comment if they dont feel they can help and some ppl are chattier than others too.

 

[l_maclean]

I'm sorry that you feel this way. I think part of what pinky says is correct, this section was very quiet till the dec mummies invaded it, so if your LO is older its just that a lot of us don't have advice for that stage yet.

Also the reason that some posts/people get more responses is that we seem to trend on the same problems. Like a lot of us are having reflux issues just now, and are sharing tips on that, which makes for a long thread.

It's really nothing personal - id never choose to post or not post based on who - only on whether I could be useful. Xxx

 

[wannabmummy]

Sorry you feel like this hun but it really isn't personal at all! Please stay! Xx

 

[katie_lou]

I hope you decide to stay Hun xxx

 

[ZMD]

Sorry your feeling this way. I can understand why as ive posted threads which haven't had replies. I do try and advise where and when I can xx

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[Dustbunny]

Very sorry you feel this way hun, but it also seems you're not the only one.

I'm sure no one has intentionally ignored you. I have noticed at busy times threads are changing so quickly that it's very easy to miss some and I'm sure at some point all of us have had a thread that hasn't received much attention.

I do hope you stay I never like to see someone unhappy.

Btw Jake is sooo cute

 

[positivity :)]

Really sad to see this, I think it's more noticeable because a group of December/Jan mummies came in here together, we may be guilty of sticking to each other as some of us came thru ttc then all the tris together. I'm pretty sure iv answered a few of Ur threads and u have always been supportive. Please reconsider xx

 

[leannesxb]

Hi hun. So sorry you feel this way. I have to admit I have met some amazing people on this forum and could not have got through my previous mc, pregnancy, birth and the past few months of AJs life without them. They are my rocks and my solitude!!! I am guilty of sticking to talking and commenting on peoples threads that I have gone all the way through with and sometimes thats the way things are. I shall make a conscious effort in future to check everyones comments I think its just with the time limits of having a new baby I have just looked for the people I know. xxxxxx

 

[My1stBaby]

its not nice to hear someone feels like that but im sure it really isnt anything personal!

i think everyone just responds to posts they know something about, i dont respond unless i can give advice! and ive had many threads where only 1 or 2 people have responded. i dont think everyone has time to respond to every thread so whatever pops up on that day people seem to answer then its easily forgotten about!

this is a place for support and im sure all the mummies on here are too mature to play games and leave people out!! so i wouldnt take it personally xxx

 

[Verity2011]

Awww I'm really sorry hon. I posted a lot during pregnancy but don't get to as much with LO here (I'm usually on my phone and it's so old the battery dies so quickly). Like others have said I'll comment where I can offer support or congrats but I have noticed sometimes when you post at a quiter part of the day lots of people don't see it and by the time the forum is busy again the thread may have been pushed down. I also think pinky's right that this room picked up with the dec/jan mummies. But don't be disheartened - we would all love to share your good and bad times with you x

 

[vickib_1984]

there was a lot of people like pos said who had babies in dec/jan and then feb/march i havent seen any of your posts but i dont get on much any more i do hope you realise people do care but sometimes dont know what to say even though they have looked at your ppost sometimes it happens to me, good luck though but maybe this thread will get closed as these threads are not allowed xxx

 

[Simoneh00]

I feel like that on here too sometimes but it's just part and parcel of the forums. In my last pregnancy I was deffo part of the in the crowd cause I posted non stop they didn't have a choice but to blether to me
It's different now though cause most of those ladies aren't here.
Sometimes I feel like I comment on a busy thread then it dies...awkward lol but don't take it personally. People have made friends on here and people haven't. You get advice and nonsense to read all the same

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[DaisyPurple]

Lol Simone I have done that many times commented Kong a thread only for it to die or be totally ignored .. I have to just shrug it off and carry on regardless I still find a lot of support here and feel I still have lots to offer in way of support too xx

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[Simoneh00]

Everyone is really lovely and I think once you get into the girls room you feel a bit more included too xx

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[Rachey]

That's horrible that you feel that way

When I was on here the girls were amazing and everyone supported eachother right the way through. I barely post on here now cause like a few others said I think it's become really cliquey.

Good luck x

 

[redbear]

Im not in the girlys room (have asked loads) but have always felt like i fit in and supported and i dont suck up if i dont agree i will say so but i dont fall out with people over opinions. If people dont reply to a question i dont feel like im not loved just no one knew the answer! I have found this to be the nicest forum i have ever joined. I think you should stay xx

 

[littlemiss83]

Oh no, please dont go!!??

I have to admit tho, I kinda feel the same. I dont think my posts get as much replies as other threads, that seem more meaning-less, if that makes sense. Sometimes if ppl dont have advice its good to know someone is listening.

I've got you on FB, but I tend to not post as much, but i'm always there for a chat if you need one.

Please stay!!??

xxxxxxxx

 

[benjis mum]

I aleays seem to kill any thread!! But the ladies on here offer loads of great advice so even if you don't make friends at least look at it as a useful place to get info or help.

 

[niknaks]

Aww don't go. I agree with some of the other girls about a Whole of Dec/Jan mummies coming in and i wouldn't really know what advice to give older babies. With me I don't tend to see who the person is I just respnd If i feel that I can add to it. Don't feel you have to leave look how many of us want you to stay xxx