Moving on...

[ChrissieCool]

Just wanted to say bye, I don't feel I fit in on here and doubt I ever will, I have always tried to be helpful when I knew I could and be supportive but I never get any support back, was the same really when I was pregnant but thought it might change once I had Jake but it hasn't, when I feel really down and look for support on here I pretty much get ignored, a couple of replies maybe if I'm lucky and if you were one of those people then thank you. Everyone one else seems to get so much support, if I post about something I'm happy about or a milestone that gets pushed aside along with everything else I have to say while everyone else gets loads of encouragement. I have tried so hard to fit in, I tried adding people on FB to maybe make a friend only to be deleted, in all the time I have been on here I don't have one person I can call a friend so I'm giving up. I have never been mean or rude to anyone on here ever, I really don't get it.

Good luck to you all and I wish you all well, Bye from Jake and myself

 

[Nurse 26]

Oh no, sorry your feeling like this. please dont feel you have to go

 

[Hope81]

Those kind of threads are not allowed so probably that will be closed.
Good bye though. Sorry you feel like that

 

[netty]

Ive just read thru ur posts and people gave given u well wishes in the past?

Also leaving threads are not allowed so im sorry u feel that way love? Best of luck

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[Rachaellius]

Oh gosh I am so sorry you feel that way

I hope you decide to stay xx

 

[Danti]

Hey hun, doubt this will change your mind about leaving, but just wanted you to know I'm in the samue boat. I've given up trying to make friends on here too, I just add my little tit bits here and there and help out where I can. If I need advice I just search for it as 9 times out of 10 someone else has already asked. Don't get me wrong I think the ladies on here are lovely and very supportive of one another but I feel it takes time and a lot of sharing of personal stuff to build up a rep on here and me, myself am not a massive sharer and after the troll fiasco won't be trying any harder.. so please don't feel you are being singled out and ignored hun! Sometimes people just don't know how to reply to a thread or don't want to reply.. and most of the time there is so much traffic on here it drops down the list and isn't noticed unless you venture into the specific part of the forum it was posted in.. its not a reflection on you as a person at all! xx

 

[Nic36]

Sorry you feel like that . Wishing you all the best for the future... Xx

 

[netty]

Awww danti x

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[Lilelephant]

Aw babe sorry u feel like this

 

[pinkyprincess]

I think a lot of us have very little babies and find it easier to give advice to the new ones coming in. I never really know what to say to people with older ones as I haven't been there yet! I also think this room was pretty quiet until the nov/dec mummies came through (I could be wrong!)

Sorry you feel like this I hate to see someone upset!

 

[netty]

See chrissiecool, people do care x

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[Rachaellius]

I care

I don't particularly feel close to anyone either. With me I read a post and if I have advise I give it and if I don't know much about it I don't say anything so it doesn't depend who the thread is by xx

 

[Roo3]

This forum is quite cliquey but I think most forums probably are. I don't post a lot and am not particularly close to anyone in that uses this forum. Am sorry you feel you have to leave. X

 

[pringle88]

Aw Hun don't go!! You aren't being singled out and I'm sorry if u feel that way! jake is gorgeous! Stay xx

 

[Susanne]

Sorry to hear you feel let down... Often my threads don't get answered either, and I know it can be a bit frustrating when you can see that 60 or so have looked, but only 1 (or none) has taken the time to reply. But I'm sure it's not meant to be personal, I hope you reconsider! It would be a shame to lose you!

 

[marley]

Sorry you feel like this, you should still use the forum if you need advice hun. I can understand why you might feel this way. just remember its the Internet and not real life, this in no way is a reflection of u as a person xxx


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[DaisyPurple]

sorry you feel this way CC hope you do come back on to see the support that this post has drummed up at least, and you don't leave it completely x

 

[wifeywifey]

Hey hun, doubt this will change your mind about leaving, but just wanted you to know I'm in the samue boat. I've given up trying to make friends on here too, I just add my little tit bits here and there and help out where I can. If I need advice I just search for it as 9 times out of 10 someone else has already asked. Don't get me wrong I think the ladies on here are lovely and very supportive of one another but I feel it takes time and a lot of sharing of personal stuff to build up a rep on here and me, myself am not a massive sharer and after the troll fiasco won't be trying any harder.. so please don't feel you are being singled out and ignored hun! Sometimes people just don't know how to reply to a thread or don't want to reply.. and most of the time there is so much traffic on here it drops down the list and isn't noticed unless you venture into the specific part of the forum it was posted in.. its not a reflection on you as a person at all! xx

I feel the same as this but like she said the answer is usually here, that and I hope that I have helped other people at times. Other than that people dont know me.


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[pinkyprincess]

One thing you need to remember is that these posts can also be viewed by non members too!

 

[Maybe_mummy]

Hey honey I do understand where your coming from its frustrating to see all the views and hardly any replies and then others seem to get loads of replies constantly. To be honest I also see where your coming from the forum can seem very clicky. I dont let it bother me now I come on have a quick look then normally go again if I have nothing to contribute. I do hope if you choose to leave for sure that any support you might have wanted through the forum you can get elsewhere. Xxx