I am getting really annoyed with my MIL...She is married to a guy who is not DH dad and they met when DH was 18 but he doesn't like DH or me which we don't like him either so is ok but went up xmas to delvier pressies and he was rude didn't speak to me ask how the baby was,when DH tried to speak to him he only got half answers , we left and DH said he felt like punching his lights out but we thought duty over.
Then i sent he an email with the link for my moses basket we had bought. I spoke to her last week end and asked her what she thought of the moses basket and she said she never opened the link as they are on dial up and she'd see it anyway. ( so the 1 or 2p would obviously be too much enthusiasm for her) I was left furious .i feel like i am constantly trying to get her to be intrested in the baby. She already had a grandson and granddaughter by DH's twin brother ( which she now rarely bothers with and hasn't actually seen them since march despite living 15 mins drive away) I ohone her to tell her about the scans, phone her to tell her about the m/w appointments.
She appears like she is on competition with me when i say i am still been sick she says well you get used to it or well thats pregnancy ( well i don't get used to it it tires me out and at times i just feel sorry for myself and want everyone else to) when i said i was hoping to go through labour on gas & air but would have to see how hard i find the pain she said oh i did it with non at all. She is not the slightest bit supportive.She has never been to visit us since i got pregnant . we live 40 mins drive away.
I don't have any contact with my parents and really want her to be involved but am sick of trying to make her excited and making all the effort when I am the pregnant one and getting nothing from her.
DH spoke to her yesterday and said he hadn't rang because he was upset how we were treated at xmas and she just said she never noticed anything so couldn't comment then said she had to go.
I feel at the end of my tether with this women and really just want to give her a piece of my mind but have done that in the past and it does nothing to resolve anything. she just builds up more of a grudge against us and we get turned into the evil ones upsetting her.
Then i sent he an email with the link for my moses basket we had bought. I spoke to her last week end and asked her what she thought of the moses basket and she said she never opened the link as they are on dial up and she'd see it anyway. ( so the 1 or 2p would obviously be too much enthusiasm for her) I was left furious .i feel like i am constantly trying to get her to be intrested in the baby. She already had a grandson and granddaughter by DH's twin brother ( which she now rarely bothers with and hasn't actually seen them since march despite living 15 mins drive away) I ohone her to tell her about the scans, phone her to tell her about the m/w appointments.
She appears like she is on competition with me when i say i am still been sick she says well you get used to it or well thats pregnancy ( well i don't get used to it it tires me out and at times i just feel sorry for myself and want everyone else to) when i said i was hoping to go through labour on gas & air but would have to see how hard i find the pain she said oh i did it with non at all. She is not the slightest bit supportive.She has never been to visit us since i got pregnant . we live 40 mins drive away.
I don't have any contact with my parents and really want her to be involved but am sick of trying to make her excited and making all the effort when I am the pregnant one and getting nothing from her.
DH spoke to her yesterday and said he hadn't rang because he was upset how we were treated at xmas and she just said she never noticed anything so couldn't comment then said she had to go.
I feel at the end of my tether with this women and really just want to give her a piece of my mind but have done that in the past and it does nothing to resolve anything. she just builds up more of a grudge against us and we get turned into the evil ones upsetting her.