meeting friends when sick all day long

[MariaIsabella]

Hi ladies.

I feel so guilty. My DH has booked a double date with a good friend of his and his girlfriend. Its tonight.. I feel sick and extremely tired and only want to go home and sleep after work. DH said he understood and was very nice about it but I still feel I let him down. Is it normal to be this antisocial in the first trimester?

x

 

[Phoenix85]

Yes, I know what you mean.

I see my friend most Mondays, we go to the local soft play but we haven't been or met up since October!
We were supposed to go last week but I felt so ill I couldn't face leaving the house.

I'm thinking of arranging to go this week though and just hope I'm OK and being out takes my mind off feeling sick.

 

[Bugsy]

I know how you feel.

I have soo many plans in December because of the Christmas season / a good friend is moving back to Australia and I don't have the energy to go to any of it.

Doesn't help that I get questioned why I'm not drinking - and I'm way too early to say anything to people.

My plan is to keep going to them but I'll be leaving early

 

[MariaIsabella]

I just can't go tonight, feel to exhausted.. Its different when you meet good friends but these are people I have not met and I have to be all happy. I just have to face I will be a boring miserable person for now