***** May 2019 Mummies *****

[Redhead]

Random question, do you think it would be safe to have a subway Italian BMT? I am really craving one, but not sure about the processed meat, I would have it heated, but not sure it’s its safe? It’s not the end of the world if I don’t have one, just really feel like it! I think I’m one of those people who are a bit over cautious! Let me know your thoughts girls xxx

I'd have it! But this is my second so I'm pretty relaxed about it all this time round.

 

[Piglet30]

Due the 28th... twins???

Did the sonographer think twins or were they unsure?

 

[Aurora_J]

I seem to be able to keep dry crackers and yogurts down for now. I miss food.
Sonya how far are you?

 

[keeptrying14]

im sorry everyone is feeling so shit its just rubbish. I feel so down at the moment and depressed with how I am feeling. I just hope when second tri hits it will be better. At the moment im living day by day and feel like the worst mummy to my other two I cant even read bedtime stories atm as the extra saliva in my mouth makes me gag. Feeling sorry for myself!

 

[Aurora_J]

I'm the same keeptrying. Its so hard to do anything atm i feel like a failure and i'm sure my 2 hate me for not being my normal self.

 

[keeptrying14]

It’s so hard isn’t it. It sounds so awful but I just keep thinking I wish I hadn’t done it. I know it’s my hormones and because I feel so shitty but it’s really hard to find anything positive right now. How’s ur oh being? Xx

 

[linxminx21]

Baby is fine despite spotting and no cause for spotting so probably cervix.

Baby was measuring 8+4. So I have been put back 4 days but I expected that as I Ovulate later in my cycle.

Saw its beautiful little heartbeat and its teeny legs!
I'm so emotional and overwhelmed it's unreal!

 

[ABC237]

Hi everyone, hope everyone is ok, although I know some of us are feeling crap! Keep trying and Aurora, sorry you’re having a bad time still. I feel like we can see the light at the end of the tri 1 tunnel though and will (hopefully) feel better and start to glow (ha!) in tri 2!

Lovely scan linx, I bet you’re relieved!!

Nothing much to report here, nausea is still quite bad (vomiting seems to have passed) and I’m shattered. Been off work for almost 2 weeks now and going back on Saturday. Not sure how it’s going to go or how I’ll cope. Not looking forward to it! Looking forward to being 10 weeks though, it feels like a milestone!

 

[Aurora_J]

It’s so hard isn’t it. It sounds so awful but I just keep thinking I wish I hadn’t done it. I know it’s my hormones and because I feel so shitty but it’s really hard to find anything positive right now. How’s ur oh being? Xx

Hubby has been great but hes not very good at cooking or cleaning. Kids are fed up with Pasta and cheese for dinner everyday.

 

[Sonya1515]

They were unsure as I'm only about 6 weeks

 

[Aurora_J]

My anxiety is really bad atm. Every twinge or cramp has me thinking i'm going to Mc. I've convinced myself that its ectopic because i have some pinching like pains in my right side near my hip.
Thankfully i saw my Doctor today who has booked a scan on monday. She's also recommended i seek counselling as I'm still struggling with the mc.
Driving myself mad with all this worrying.

 

[firstfreakout]

My anxiety is really bad atm. Every twinge or cramp has me thinking i'm going to Mc. I've convinced myself that its ectopic because i have some pinching like pains in my right side near my hip.
Thankfully i saw my Doctor today who has booked a scan on monday. She's also recommended i seek counselling as I'm still struggling with the mc.
Driving myself mad with all this worrying.

Aurora, if you mention at your booking in appointment to the midwife about your previous MC and it's affect on you, and how it's the cause of your worry etc now, they might refer you to the perinatal mental health team for support through the pregnancy. It'll be much better than self referring to a general counselling service (not sure where you live but it's generally a self referral), as the perinatal team will focus specifically on the pregnancy and any related emotional struggles you're having relating to it. Definitely worth a mention anyway just so you can get the right support.

I'm sorry you're so anxious With an ectopic pregnancy there tends to be more than just the sign of a pinching pain on one side, so hold on to that fact for now while you await the scan on Monday.

 

[keeptrying14]

Fab news linxminx such lovely scan. How’s everyone feeling today? I think that your doing the right thing getting the scan to put your mind at rest. X

 

[linxminx21]

Hey girls. 8w6d today.
Does it feel like you've been pregnant for years? It does me
It feels like 9 months since I found out. I found out on the 2nd September lol.

I'm already kicking out sugar into my wee... I do it all through pregnancy so midwife has booked me in for urgent gtt! Fabulous! Lol

My next scan will probably be when I get back from my holibobs... Which nothing is ready for. I have no energy or motivation to do anything... Only 16 days untill we fly!

I'm hoping the runny tummy is easing off a bit now.... Fx

 

[Beetle123]

Hey girls. 8w6d today.
Does it feel like you've been pregnant for years? It does me
It feels like 9 months since I found out. I found out on the 2nd September lol.

I'm already kicking out sugar into my wee... I do it all through pregnancy so midwife has booked me in for urgent gtt! Fabulous! Lol

My next scan will probably be when I get back from my holibobs... Which nothing is ready for. I have no energy or motivation to do anything... Only 16 days untill we fly!

I'm hoping the runny tummy is easing off a bit now.... Fx

Hi linx, I’m also 8+6 today, but Iv worked my EDD our to be 12th of May, but I can see yours is earlier, is this because you have had a scan?? Iv not had any scans yet, so just going by what the online calculator said xxx

 

[linxminx21]

Hi linx, I’m also 8+6 today, but Iv worked my EDD our to be 12th of May, but I can see yours is earlier, is this because you have had a scan?? Iv not had any scans yet, so just going by what the online calculator said xxx[/QUOTE]

Hey my due date is the 12th may (at the moment)
Due date buddies
Iv had a scan and they moved me back 4 days.
The date on my ticker is the date I gt my bfp

When do you have a scan?
Have you booked in yet? X x

 

[Aurora_J]

Aurora, if you mention at your booking in appointment to the midwife about your previous MC and it's affect on you, and how it's the cause of your worry etc now, they might refer you to the perinatal mental health team for support through the pregnancy. It'll be much better than self referring to a general counselling service (not sure where you live but it's generally a self referral), as the perinatal team will focus specifically on the pregnancy and any related emotional struggles you're having relating to it. Definitely worth a mention anyway just so you can get the right support.

I'm sorry you're so anxious With an ectopic pregnancy there tends to be more than just the sign of a pinching pain on one side, so hold on to that fact for now while you await the scan on Monday.

Yeah i have to do a self referral but i will wait for booking in appointment see if my midwife will do that for me.

I know what the pain is but the rational side of my brain is being overruled by anxiety. Its just a cyst on my ovary which is very common in pregnant woman it happened with my youngest aswell and that's what the sonographer told me. I need to give myself a mental slap.

 

[linxminx21]

I don't think it matters how much our brain knows what the pain is... We will always worry and let our heart rule our head.
Iv had 2 scans so I know this baby is in the eight place and 1000000000% not eptopic but I still get shoulder pain and a pain on my groin and I'm like Omg what if another one is in their.
(their isn't they checked my overies and tubes both times lol)

 

[Piglet30]

Got my scan on Tuesday. I’m a worrier too so, although I’ve had nothing suspicious, I’ve decided to have a private one just for reassurance. Excited but also nervous.

Can’t believe he is as big as a gummy bear already! .....well, I hope he is, what if he’s measuring small.....or big......or isn’t there at all.......or there are two of them.....or more!.......or one baby but with three arms.....or maybe two hearts like Doctor Who. Roll on Tuesday.....but also hold off Tuesday as I’m scared too!

 

[Beetle123]

Hi linx, I’m also 8+6 today, but Iv worked my EDD our to be 12th of May, but I can see yours is earlier, is this because you have had a scan?? Iv not had any scans yet, so just going by what the online calculator said xxx

Hey my due date is the 12th may (at the moment)
Due date buddies
Iv had a scan and they moved me back 4 days.
The date on my ticker is the date I gt my bfp

When do you have a scan?
Have you booked in yet? X x[/QUOTE]

Yay how exciting!!
So Iv got my booking appointment on the 16th with the midwife, and I assume il get my scan date following that? Il be 10+2 on my booking appt, so hope the waiting list for the scans isn’t too long! Xxx