May 2017 Mummies *NEW*

[lisey]

So I was looking on next for new bras because my boobs are huge and I couldn't shop for myself without shopping for baby xx

 

[Eryinera]

Awww wow.

That's so pretty lisey snow & lou x

I'm so happy you will be finally getting to use the things you got for Harrison lou I'm sure he's just as excited as you are about the new arrival x

That's a nice bump too nikki.

I too have trouble brushing my teeth I'm using my son's toothpaste and mouthwash as it's much milder the mouthwash especially has been a life saver!

When I got in work today I was leaning of a friends "pod" before work started and she picks something up from the floor as she stands up she goes "shit how big are your tit's now they're bloody huge!" lol we always joked we could use a boob job now I think I'm good lol.

 

[nikkix86]

lol ery that's so funny. me and oh pretty much broke up last night I'm trying to see if anything will save our relationship but I'm not sure. I have supportive friends tho so that's good

 

[snowbee]

Sorry to hear that Nikki, I'm glad you have support who can help you through. I'm sure you will do just perfectly on your own though, hugs.

Lisey that is so cute, I love the multi colour poppers!

Lou I'm going to look into it further, I'm quite keen to try reusable and those are adorable (and if you have to deal with poop it may as well be made a cute as possible haha).

Ery glad you got your boob job! Mine haven't changed at all yet.

 

[snowbee]

Ohhh and good luck to everyone off for scans today!

 

[Eryinera]

Nikki I'm so sorry but you know you've got us girls here. You're a strong woman and from what I've heard you're better off without x at least unless he grows up a bit x x x x

 

[Piglet's Mama]

Oh Nikki, so sorry to hear that but by the sounds of it, you will be much better off without him. And it's good you've got such a great support network around you.

Ladies - I am so fed up. I am so f**king over this sickness and feeling constantly exhausted. I'm back to work tomorrow (6 hours in a baby room), and I just think how the hell am I going to do it? I have the desire to do nothing. I just want to lie down. I've just collected my food shopping and it's laying downstairs in the hallway because I don't have it in me to put it away.

What's so frustrating is that it's so unlike me. I'm normally so busy and can't sit still. I work three full time days, do a placement on one day, study in the evenings, have a day to clean/food shop etc I don't have time to stop. I don't have time to feel like THIS. When will it end? I could cry I'm so fed up and frustrated

 

[snowbee]

Sorry you are still feeling rough Piglet. I'm not sick but I'm certainly feeling off and am so tired it is stupid. I said to my oh yesterday I'm so fed up of being this tired, I have things I need to do! I've read it does tend to get better though? Or am I just being optimistic?!

 

[Piglet's Mama]

Thanks Snowbee, it does get better. Sadly for me it's been at about the 4 month mark with my other two, and the thought of another month like this could make me weep

 

[missyeovil]

It's so horrible isnt it Piglet? I can't remember feeling normal and having energy to do cleaning or cooking. I can't go to the shop without feeling sick and there's no food delivery where I live. All that said, although still utterly exhausted I had a better day yesterday and managed to eat quite a bit at a buffet at a christening. Even had some salmon and a wee cup of tea! So hoping it isthe start of feeling better. Need to get some energy back to get myself organised for Christmas!x

 

[Eryinera]

Less said about Xmas the better lol. I feel the same with tiredness and sickness also had a worrying heart palpation today as well. It was the worst one to date. I felt all dizzy and faint and had to squat down. I've got so much to do. Bit ill do it later. Work has been hard I do 3x 8hr days and 1x 6hr day but I've been taking regular breaks and have a chair to sit on when I can.

 

[lisey]

So sorry Nikki, I know its not easy breaking up but maybe its best for you and your family xx

Pigletsmama, I am the same still too. Can barely do anything. Even putting the washing out is a massive ordeal. I feel drained and sick all of the time. I couldn't possibly go back to work. I wanted to go back today but was wishful thinking really and doctor said she wanted to sign me off for another month. I may not take the whole time though. I will hopefully feel better before then.
If you really don't feel up to it then maybe call the doctor, looking after babies is full on and would be so difficult when you feel this way still xx

 

[nikkix86]

thanks girls it's going to be hard he might come around but him and his mum see it as I've chosen the baby over him which I guess I have in a way.

has anyone got scans today?

 

[lisey]

And what is wrong with that. Would they not put their children first? I would any day of the week! xx

 

[Eryinera]

Any good mother would pit children first surely? If I had to clean up my child's wet bed or my husbands.........

I really want macdonalds chicken nuggets.

 

[nikkix86]

he wanted to move away to his friends and familyand I'm not taking the kids out of school and they wanted me to get rid of the baby

 

[lisey]

You are well rid Nikki, they sound awful. Makes my blood boil!!

Oh no, chicken nuggets I have got to pop to tesco local soon and I am dreading it. I can't cope with looking at food. I know its odd but it just all makes me feel sick...apart from the chocolate section!! xx

 

[Eryinera]

You're well better off without him nikki!

I completely get that lisey. I can't do that either I have to tesco shop online. I can't look at brown drinks (except hot choc)

Just managed to stumble over the road to the local shop to satisfy a sudden strawberry milkshake craving. the first thing to enter my stomach today. Managed to pick up tea for tonight though.

 

[lisey]

I am trying to plan what to get before I go but that is making me feel sick too so I can't win!! I really thought would be feeling better by now. I am almost 14 weeks!! Hope the milkshake goes down well. I am going to buy some hot chocolate, I miss a hot drink. I had a decaff coffee last week and was violently sick after so that has put me off. Can manage a hot choc though xx

 

[Eryinera]

It's the only hot drink I can stomach too. yeah need to really gear myself up to buy groceries. Luckily by doing it online if I start to feel grim I can just close the app down for a bit.

I thought I'd be feeling better too.I'm still sick every morning. Milkshake went down well but ice now got a bloody awful aftertaste