Made my Facebook announcement....

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No scan pic but just said we were expecting our first baby and we were really happy.

In the back of my mind though I feel anxious in case I'm unknowingly rubbing someone's nose in it as I remember thinking 'another pregnancy related fb post!' back when we were ttc.

Anyone else feel or think they will that way? Xxx
 
Hiya

Facebook in general can be a bit of a minefield anyway :) if you were to keep on regularly putting up preg-related statuses (esp moanie ones) then you never know who might be crying inside. But if you keep it short & sweet i don't see that anyone can begrudge you. And most ppl will be happy for you.

Persistent expecting-related statuses and scan pics have really hacked me off/upset me in the past so i am aiming to keep any announcements to a minimum, if i'm lucky enough to make it further on in my pregnancy

Anyway in answer to your question, i think what you put is fine & i hope you get lots of likes & congrats :)
 
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Not done mine yet but quite a few people already know, will do after next weeks scan before my birthday. :)

Xx
 
I have been wanting to post mine since my 12 week scan but stopped myself, not sure why. More because i'm a worrier and don't want to jinx myself i think... odd i know lol !6 weeks today and still not done it lol
 
I'm not doing mine until the 12 week scan. My close friends already know but a lot of oh's family don't. I think as long as there's not a lot of "god this is awful, I feel shit, woe is me" (which I'm sure you won't anyway) then that's fine.
Enjoy spreading your news xx
 
I have had a lot of problems with ppl on facebook to do with pg, but inn the end I am not trying to hurt ppl, so I post what I like! If ppl don't want to see they should delete me, its not like I post everyday saying I'm pg your not lalala lol!
Enjoy your pregnancy ! The people that matter will be just as excited! The ones that don't will show themselves, then you know your real friends x x
 
Enjoy your pregnancy ! The people that matter will be just as excited! The ones that don't will show themselves, then you know your real friends x x

Then you start hitting the friends delete button!!! :D
 
Good post EssJayPea, I found it wasn't the announcements just the constant moaners on FB about their pg. To be honest if people get upset about posts there is a setting which will limit seeing certain peoples status.I feel the same last time there was a baby boom same time I mc'd but I just stayed off it instead of reading peoples posts I was happy for them I just didn't want to keep reminding myself of our loss though :)

You deserve to be happy and stick your post on and friends should be happy for you too :) don't worry xxx
 
Excellent advice! I'm not really a massive fb poster, in general, and have this place to air my moans and bore people, thankfully ;)

Got lovely comments and likes so will leave it at that.

Thanks again :) xx
 
Aww I can't wait to do mine! :) I've been planning the wording for about 2 years haha, I'm just going to write pretty much the same as you essjaypea, short and sweet and to the point.

I know what you mean though hun, FB announcements always used to make me feel a bit funny when we were WTT and TTC... Not upset exactly, that's the wrong word, it just sort of intensifies your own feelings doesn't it and makes you go 'I SOOOO wish that was me!' :) except for one announcement which appeared about an hour after my AF in our first month TTC, that one made me cry! I was always really happy for people though once I got over that initial green eyed monster, and liked seeing peoples scans etc. I can understand people who have had trouble TTC or losses being really upset and I would hate to think I might upset someone unintentionally, but I am a FB addict and use it to keep in touch with family/friends who live away, so if I don't do an announcement then it will be difficult to get round everyone to tell them.

I cannot abide FB pregnancy moaners though! Omg I've had to use the hide button a few times with girls moaning about how sick, tired and fat they feel, grr. One girl even complaining that all the summer clothes are in the shops and she will be too fat to wear them! Would you not rather have a baby than a new dress, love?! Don't get me wrong I think we all need to rant sometimes but your OH or a forum is the place to do it, not facebook. I also don't like scan photos used as profile pics, its like a constant rubbing it in peoples faces as even when they are posting something non-preg related there's a little pic next to it going 'don't forget I am preggo!'

We should do a PF girls facebook code of practice haha... 'thou can do a pregnancy announcement and enjoy sharing your lovely news with family and friends but thou shall try to never be a pregnancy moaning minnie or go on about it too much'! ;)
 
I don't think I will be doing one but only because Some of Als family are a nosy pack of gobshites and it get more pleasure out of not posting it lol x
 
Ams, i like your last idea! :)

Also agree on the scan pic as profile pic being way too in your face if you ask me

For some reason fb likes to even put friends commenting on other ppl's scans/preg-related news in my feed, which is even more irksome! (I tend to hide ppl who do multiple preg-related posts but there seems to be nothing i can do about this)

Essjaypea, am glad you got a positive response :)
 
I have my scan pic or bump as my profile pic. I am excited, my baby and my oh are my life, I don't see a problem with having those pics! Ppl don't put them up to annoy or upset anyone, its something they are happy about!! But like you said delete / hide ppl if they annoy you, but remember you want to be happy about your pregnancy and how bitchy it will sound to say can't believe she talks about her baby all the time blah blahs
 
Excellent advice! I'm not really a massive fb poster, in general, and have this place to air my moans and bore people, thankfully ;)

Got lovely comments and likes so will leave it at that.

Thanks again :) xx


Have just read this out to hubby and we are doing the same apart from putting the pic and announcing it yesterday Im not having one fo these countdown things or gonna put up everytime I have heartburn or Ive puked or whatever.....one of our friends did that with her last pregnancy and it got annoying cos it was all for sympathy (as are most of her posts still and baby is nearly a year old)

enjoy ur pregnancy xx
 
thing is hun...what u have to remember is that this is your life!! and u deserve this happy time.yes be consierate for friends who are trying but also remember that when they do finally get pregnant....they will probably announce it to the world and shout it from the roof tops.you have a right to share your happy news. the not being able to concieve is not your fault even tho yes it is very sad,congratulations.xx
 
I can't wait to do mine! I'm going to announce it around.13 weeks because me and the OH are on holiday just after the 12 week scan. I've been wanting to do this got so long, so if people get annoyed at me, they can go do one! And delete me. No loss. :)
 
*clears throat*

I do solemnly swear not to use Facebook as a place to whinge and moan about the following:

1. Getting/being fat
2. Heartburn
3. Sickness/nausea
4. Tiredness
5. Miscellaneous pregnancy gripes

Nor shall I post my scan pic up (personal choice), or pictures of bump (again, personal choice).

Amen, sisters :) xx
 
Lol EssJayPea :)

You've got this forum to do all of those things! And we will be backing you all the way! :D

congrats on your scan again :)
 

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