suzzi
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We have a lodger at the moment who is supposed to be moving out before baby comes along!
He is a nice guy and has a 5 years old girl who comes to stay on a saturday night, He has just got a new girlfriend and stays at her house all week so we never see him, which is good for us lol,
my problems is that when his daughter comes he puts her to bed then tells us hes off to his girlfriends house he stays there all night and comes back early hours leaving us to look after her, ok shes asleep but we still have to be there in case she wakes up or is ill. This has been going on for a while now and its starting to really piss me off, OH has mentioned it and said he takes the piss.
he only has his daughter one night a week and i think he should spend it with her or take her to his girlfriends with him.
he did on one occassion leave her in the house and go out till early hours, me and OH were out also, luckily my son and his girlfriend were in but he didnt tell them he was going out or ask if they were going out which they were! it was just luck that they saw him come in with his daughter and then go out without her and thought to check to see if she was still in the house otherwise they would have just gone. I was livid!!! OH had words with him too.
As its sat tomorrow im expecting him to just go out leaving her with us again, we have friends coming over tomorrow and think this gives us the oppotunity to say no as if were doing something even if it is in our house i dont hink we should be left with the responsibility, thing is my OH wont confront him about it even though he dosent agree with it.
What are your thoughts on this and how would you appraoch him.
He is a nice guy and has a 5 years old girl who comes to stay on a saturday night, He has just got a new girlfriend and stays at her house all week so we never see him, which is good for us lol,
my problems is that when his daughter comes he puts her to bed then tells us hes off to his girlfriends house he stays there all night and comes back early hours leaving us to look after her, ok shes asleep but we still have to be there in case she wakes up or is ill. This has been going on for a while now and its starting to really piss me off, OH has mentioned it and said he takes the piss.
he only has his daughter one night a week and i think he should spend it with her or take her to his girlfriends with him.
he did on one occassion leave her in the house and go out till early hours, me and OH were out also, luckily my son and his girlfriend were in but he didnt tell them he was going out or ask if they were going out which they were! it was just luck that they saw him come in with his daughter and then go out without her and thought to check to see if she was still in the house otherwise they would have just gone. I was livid!!! OH had words with him too.
As its sat tomorrow im expecting him to just go out leaving her with us again, we have friends coming over tomorrow and think this gives us the oppotunity to say no as if were doing something even if it is in our house i dont hink we should be left with the responsibility, thing is my OH wont confront him about it even though he dosent agree with it.
What are your thoughts on this and how would you appraoch him.