pollylop
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Obviously everyone knows that having a baby is life changing, but at the moment the negatives seem to be outweighing the positives. My current bf and I found out I was pregnant just after our first anniversary, and at first I was happy, but now I just feel low all the time. His lack of enthusiasm about the baby has ruined the whole experience of being pregnant for me. He supports me financially, he works long days whilst I have taken early maternity leave. I know he loves me, and will look after us both, I'm just wondering if his lack of passion for anything is right for me.
I met my ex when I was 17 and we were together on and off for nearly 5 years, we were both madly in love and due to my foolishness this relationship ended. I always thought he would be the man I would marry and have children with. He is so excitable, passionate and positive about everything in his life. He would have been dying to go to clothes shopping for the baby, would spend hours talking about the future and how he couldn't wait for the baby to be here. He was devestated when I told him I was pregnant and even wanted to me to go back to him, and move out of our current town for a fresh start. I was tempted, but didn't want to make the wrong decisions, and putting my baby first I decided to stay with my current bf.
I can't help but feel that I am having a baby with the wrong man, and no matter how hard I try these thoughts just wont seem to go.
I can't help but think if my current bf made more effort this relationship could really work, but he doesn't stack up in comparison to my ex.
Is anyone else in a similar situation??
I met my ex when I was 17 and we were together on and off for nearly 5 years, we were both madly in love and due to my foolishness this relationship ended. I always thought he would be the man I would marry and have children with. He is so excitable, passionate and positive about everything in his life. He would have been dying to go to clothes shopping for the baby, would spend hours talking about the future and how he couldn't wait for the baby to be here. He was devestated when I told him I was pregnant and even wanted to me to go back to him, and move out of our current town for a fresh start. I was tempted, but didn't want to make the wrong decisions, and putting my baby first I decided to stay with my current bf.
I can't help but feel that I am having a baby with the wrong man, and no matter how hard I try these thoughts just wont seem to go.
I can't help but think if my current bf made more effort this relationship could really work, but he doesn't stack up in comparison to my ex.
Is anyone else in a similar situation??